alexa137 Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 today i told my bf to get out--left crying arguing and ive been at my moms since 5pm--went to the house to see if he moved his stuff at 8pm nothing yet--i hid my car and ran out! well hes been calling me nonstop and leaving messages and texting me for hours! now hes worried--im hoping i can stay at my parents tonight or at a motel--but what pisses me off the most is he is at my house(told landlord to remove his name asap) since hes not paying rent anymore and was supposed to move the 1st--it will burn me up if i find out he slept in my bed or snooped through my things--this is the first night that he has been there alone-so how do i kicked him out without literally putting his stuff outside! i dont know what to do-i cant stay away from there too long--i work at home so i need to be there--and i have to start packing to move next weekend! hes there now help!!!
wlminfla Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 I'm all about the intense stuff... If you told the landlord to take his name off the list AND he hasn't been paying rent, you have every right to put his stuff outside. Do it! I hope it gets rained on and/or stolen :-) jk. But seriously, do put his stuff outside. He needs to get the hint...especially if he's the one that broke your heart!
Author alexa137 Posted March 16, 2007 Author Posted March 16, 2007 yeah but the problem is that hes there and calling me 50 times in the past 2 hours and i havent answered--and i dont want to go there since hes there--he has his chance for 4 weeks-now hes worried! well im too pissed to deal with him right now dont want to see him at all--trying to stay out all night til he goes to work--so i cant do it i was hoping he would have his stuff out by tonight but its pouring down rain!
Art_Critic Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 If his name is on the lease then you can not kick him out.. it would be his house too. If he subleases from you then you can.. but I don't think he is subleasing from you.. Or if only your name is on the lease then you can.. Do you have a lease or do you rent month to month ? What does your Mom say you should do ?
wlminfla Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 I agree, if his name is on the lease then there's nothing you can do at this time. May I be so bold as to know more about the background of your situation? Did he leave you? Did you leave him?
kimberlyk Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 I agree, if his name is on the lease, the landlord may have to help you on this one. His home is your home too, you shouldn't have to leave. You didn't give too many details about your relationship with him...is there a reason you don't want to be around him and feel you have to hide out all the time? Is he abusive? Maybe you should just go home and be a pain in the ass so he will want to move out as quickly as possible.
Author alexa137 Posted March 16, 2007 Author Posted March 16, 2007 oh i have posted many threads the past month if you really want to know the whole situation!
kimberlyk Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 I have a read some of your other postings...you really do not need the chaos in your life. I think you should just let him go...if he knew what he wanted I would assume that he would communicate it to you, if he doesn't then he shouldn't keep you hanging and guessing...it's not fair to you, you have a life to live and you are not his pet.
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