lissab113 Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 Where do I start? I have been with my boyfriend for five years. We have lived together for two of those years. Throughout our relationship, our lack of sex has been a problem. First it was once a month, then every two, then every six. Now it's been a year. I've tried to approach the subject several times and he just clams up. I adore him and want to be with him, but how do you marry a man who doesn't know how to have sex with you?I sometimes feel guilty for staying in the relationship. The sex is the only problem, but that is starting to make me paranoid that there is someone else ( I really don't think there is). Anyone have suggestions on how to deal?
kimberlyk Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 I have no advice except to tell you to try going to Counseling. You need to do something bold because you cannot go through a marriage and feel that your needs are not being met...it will not last and you will find yourself having regrets. Make the changes now.
Trialbyfire Posted March 16, 2007 Posted March 16, 2007 He's already asking a lot in a long-term relationship for the two of you to have very limited contact. To expect the relationship to continue, especially to escalate to marriage, is expecting too much. kimberlyk is right. It needs to get fixed before you enter into something even more binding. He needs professional help.
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