nate7809 Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 I would really appreciate some feedback on this cause I am going all sorts of ways in my head with it! So, around a year ago i worked with someone and we eventually began e-mailing and flirting and finally went on a date, which, at least in my opinion, went really well. We had a wonderful, long, kiss at the end of the date and both of us seemed really interested in each other and seeing each other again. Well, some things happened in this person's life and, long story short, we never saw each other again, we spoke a few times, but things suddenly seemed very strange. Several months later I saw her again and, in my opinion, she was very flirty. She asked me to go have drinks at a function that was going on (i didn't go) and would over the next few times i spoke to her...come speak to me and touch me and generally seemed interested. I suppose at that point i should have made a move, but I was afraid of what had happened before happening again. I haven't spoken to her in close to 5 months. No friendship, no casual 'hey how are you' messages or phone calls or anything. I recently heard from her, she wants to meet and have some drinks...though apparently she is seeing someone, ...I have no idea how serious it is. I guess my question is what are some of your opinions on this? I mean, part of me would really like the chance to be with her..I felt a very strong connection to her, which, for some reason, i haven't been able to shake. I would like to think that maybe she felt the same, but I gave up on assumptions a while back. At the same time, i have no interest in just being friends with her. I know it would be very uncomfortable for myself, and on top of it, i certainly am not interested in being the 3rd part of a social triangle. Thoughts, motives, etc??
whichwayisup Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 I haven't spoken to her in close to 5 months. No friendship, no casual 'hey how are you' messages or phone calls or anything. I recently heard from her, she wants to meet and have some drinks...though apparently she is seeing someone, ...I have no idea how serious it is. Seems she just wants to see if you're still interested. Trust me, if she wanted to actually GO out with you, (implying something to happen) you'd know. She would be not just asking for drinks, and you'd be getting that vibe from her. She is feeling out the situation. And, fact is, she's seeing someone, so that's another reason to not go with her. Tell her no thanks.
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