Strawbrryblonde Posted March 15, 2007 Share Posted March 15, 2007 I just got out of an 8/9 month relationship about a month and a half ago. I took a lot of time to myself and really started enjoying being me, when I met this great guy. He's everything that I want at this point in my life...fun, on top of things, perfect for right now. But the things is, I've only known him about 3 weeks and we've started sleeping together. I stay over at his apartment a lot. I found his myspace yesterday and his two most previous ex-girlfriends still have pictures of him up and they are in love with him still. There are messages from him on one of the girls pages on March 9th (the night we kissed for the first time) calling the girl "hunny, baby," and saying "I love you." I guess things went badly last weekend or something and she didn't end up moving in with him. He says that with both girls they were better off as friends, and are maintaining freindships. Right now, I am not too emotionally attached to this guy and I'm gaurding myself because of this. I am regretting sleeping with him a little bit now because I don't want to just be a rebound girl from these girls he supposedly "was in love" with. At this point I really don't know what to do. He's a really affectionate guy and seems really honest, but there are really no rules in love and war so...what do I do right now. Do I ask him about his myspace (as retarded as that seems) and find out what's really going on there? Should I stop sleeping with him for a while until I know that he's not going to just use me and move on, or go back to one of those other girls? Or do I just not worry about it and just let whatever happen happen, but keep myself gaurded? Link to post Share on other sites
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