emotionsmessmeup Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 - I work out like a maniac..cant lost weight..3 months ago the doctor detected pcos problem which makes it difficult for me to lose weight... - boy friends...0! potential ones...0! ITs been that way for a long time now.. - sex life...i have forgotten what that feels like... - Work..I moved back home to india from USA to join my family business...but now other than everyday expenses...inheritance is what i will save..Well I am the CEO though - Here in India my parents want me to see boys and their families for an arranged marriage..Everyone around me is married..couzins n all....They are open to me bringing someone home but I dont have anyone..So now I have to see boyz...They are frustrated that out of the last 10 boyz I have seen I havent said yes to anyone.. - Friends...Its been a year since I moved back and other than family I have few friends I get along with - My ex best friend..she is gettign married to the man of her dreams...he is a millionaire and she had a crush on him since high school..she didnt even bother telling me she is engaged...I guess we are no longer friends.. - I am fat and i cant dance anymore with the wieght I have on...I eat right and do all the right things.. - Last vacation nov!! Badly need one... Things to look forward to - Dubai trip this weekend - I am 5 8 with dark hair and dark eyes...I am a beautiful Indian girl...and its just weight..I will make it come off.. My life is too boring....Please give me some enlightenment..insight...i dont know what the hell i am doing..
JCD Posted March 17, 2007 Posted March 17, 2007 I don't know what the hell I'm doing either but on the weight issue, maybe you should eat smaller portions to make your tummy get used to less food and it will then contract a bit. I remember when I ate large portions I gained weight and when I ate smaller portions I lost it. At first, I think my stomach rebelled but then it got used to it. Also, combine this with an exercise to burn off the calories. I mean, if you ever saw the pictures of the people in the WWII concentration camps, then you know how skinny they looked when they were starved by being served only bread and water. Like I've said, smaller portions and perhaps eat more frequently during the day. That will keep the stomach small. On the love issue, I have such a hard time finding someone who I can connect with both physically and emotionally. When I find someone, then they don't want me. I keep hoping though. That's probably the only thing that keeps me going, else I don't know what the point of living is. Maybe to survive which is a bit better than death, I guess. I think listening to music and talking with coworkers helps me cope. I don't have a best friend because most of the people are married and have families and little time for friends. I have to work also and that leaves little time for friends. I feel for you.
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