Ezydriver Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 I have had a six week relationship. It was awesome. We both agreed. She was besotted and so was I. Last weekend was the most connected ever. This we both agreed on. On Monday she wrote me the most beautiful email, really strong and full of positivity. Then, she seemed a little cold straight after. I picked her up on it yesterday and she said she hadn't been feeling herself. I told her I was going to give her some space and she said "Ok, bye then" and signed out of Yahoo. I haven't heard anything from her since. Today I got a letter from her and she had obviously spent ages writing it. It was a funny poem and a little gift in there too. She posted it yesterday just before we chatted on Yahoo. But, today, I sent her a text to say thank you, and rang her three times but got no reply. I'm seriously regretting saying I was going to give her space now. I only did it to appear non pushy and to show respect for her feeling low, so as not to put any pressure on her. I'm not pushy ordinarily by the way. I'm confused now. She doesn't seem the sort to find somebody else, so I don't think it is that. I am starting to really feel the pinch now. Never before has she not answered her phone like that. Would it be best to leave it now? After all, my text thanks her for her letter and she will see I've tried to call a few times. If she sees that I've tried to call but not anymore, wil that give me some hope she'll call? Her behaviour is bringing back all the memories of another ex who just cut off out of the blue and the pain from that was unprecedented. Although that was a much longer relationship. I just don't understand how she can blow really hot, and then without warning blow really cold. She has lots of issues and when I met her had ony been out of a fifteen year relationship for four months. I can't believe I was even interested. I should have run a mile. But her emails, texts and letter, and what she says have always been so touching and romantic. And suddenly, nothing. EDIT: She even proposed marriage two days ago.
Dubb Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 She was on the rebound and is actually doing you a huge favor right now. Leave her be man. You did your part now respect her space. She is probably confused and needs to think. If I were you I would just go on with life and forget her for now. It could take a really long time for her to get her head together depending on how the last relationship was. I know it's hard to hear this stuff but you need to leave her be. Right now your heart is gonna play games with your head and make you do stupid stuff. She didn't call you back that is all you need to know. Remember women respect guys with dignity.
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