p98yq235h9pq4nr9qcr4 Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 What did I do wrong? I met this woman and went out on a first date with her and had a great time talking over a beer from 8pm until midnight, walked her to her car and said we’d see each other a few nights later... On the 2nd date, we again talked for a few hours over a beer at a nice pub and then went to her place and started kissing and hugging. I said I should behave, (because I was getting excited) and that I would keep my hands to myself. A little while later she started kissing again and put my hand under her shirt on her breast and we kissed more passionately. Then as I was leaving, she kissed me again in the hallway and placed my hand on her bum, and we kissed so passionately that I thought we were going to do it right there in the hallway. Anyway, a few days later she emails me telling me that she never felt "more pressured" to have sex in her life and didn't want to see me again!! I promise you - I did not put my hands on her breast and bum... she did!!! She started kissing me passionately the second two times!!! What did I do wrong? What else could/should I have done??? The things is, I am really bummed this all got screwed up somehow and I don’t know why!!!
DanielMadr Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 What did I do wrong? I met this woman and went out on a first date with her and had a great time talking over a beer from 8pm until midnight, walked her to her car and said we’d see each other a few nights later... On the 2nd date, we again talked for a few hours over a beer at a nice pub and then went to her place and started kissing and hugging. I said I should behave, (because I was getting excited) and that I would keep my hands to myself. A little while later she started kissing again and put my hand under her shirt on her breast and we kissed more passionately. Then as I was leaving, she kissed me again in the hallway and placed my hand on her bum, and we kissed so passionately that I thought we were going to do it right there in the hallway. Anyway, a few days later she emails me telling me that she never felt "more pressured" to have sex in her life and didn't want to see me again!! I promise you - I did not put my hands on her breast and bum... she did!!! She started kissing me passionately the second two times!!! What did I do wrong? What else could/should I have done??? The things is, I am really bummed this all got screwed up somehow and I don’t know why!!! Irony? Was it?
agnf666 Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 What did I do wrong? I met this woman and went out on a first date with her and had a great time talking over a beer from 8pm until midnight, walked her to her car and said we’d see each other a few nights later... On the 2nd date, we again talked for a few hours over a beer at a nice pub and then went to her place and started kissing and hugging. I said I should behave, (because I was getting excited) and that I would keep my hands to myself. A little while later she started kissing again and put my hand under her shirt on her breast and we kissed more passionately. Then as I was leaving, she kissed me again in the hallway and placed my hand on her bum, and we kissed so passionately that I thought we were going to do it right there in the hallway. Anyway, a few days later she emails me telling me that she never felt "more pressured" to have sex in her life and didn't want to see me again!! I promise you - I did not put my hands on her breast and bum... she did!!! She started kissing me passionately the second two times!!! What did I do wrong? What else could/should I have done??? The things is, I am really bummed this all got screwed up somehow and I don’t know why!!! Apparently, drinking is something that she should not do. She was unaware of her actions apparently and blamed them on you. If I were you I wouldn't want to be with a woman like that.
Salicious Crumb Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 What did I do wrong? I met this woman and went out on a first date with her and had a great time talking over a beer from 8pm until midnight, walked her to her car and said we’d see each other a few nights later... On the 2nd date, we again talked for a few hours over a beer at a nice pub and then went to her place and started kissing and hugging. I said I should behave, (because I was getting excited) and that I would keep my hands to myself. A little while later she started kissing again and put my hand under her shirt on her breast and we kissed more passionately. Then as I was leaving, she kissed me again in the hallway and placed my hand on her bum, and we kissed so passionately that I thought we were going to do it right there in the hallway. Anyway, a few days later she emails me telling me that she never felt "more pressured" to have sex in her life and didn't want to see me again!! I promise you - I did not put my hands on her breast and bum... she did!!! You didn't do anything wrong if she was the one that put your hands where she wanted them. Sounds like she's a head case and and is a head game player. Maybe you might think about moving on?
whichwayisup Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 Uhhmm, is it possible she has a boyfriend or is married, and just didn't let you know? So that closeness freaked her out? Sounds like too, she either has problems, fears of getting close or she's just plain nuts! Don't call her or contact her again. You didn't do anything wrong, so try your best not to let this get to you. Sometimes it's best to just let things go, and this is one of those things... Nice username, p98yq235h9pq4nr9qcr4, btw.
Sand&Water Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 Reply: Got herself some affection, and an ego stroke. She felt the power -teasing and playing her way with you. The whole incident/dating experience started out on the wrong foot. Women who contradict themselves, this early on, and do the unconventional approach is a Red Flag. Move on, P98yq235h9pq4nr9qcr4. Sand&Water
tragicglands Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 Move on, P98yq235h9pq4nr9qcr4. I bet your password is something easy to remember, like "Fred."
Guest Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 Thanks everyone.... I'll move on and forget about it! ...and btw, my password is something as simple as Fred - I just couldn't get any of the screen names I wanted, so I hit the keyboard with both hands in frustration!!!
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