jbizzle Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 I am in need of some feedback on a situation. Well here is the story. For about 1 month or so i've been talking to this girl that goes to my college, on the phone pretty much causally. She use to call me all the time during that month. Recently i was basically cockblocked by my own teammate on my baseball team. Ya how screwed up is that and now i pretty much have been replaced at least that is my own view. Now i do like this girl, but dont need her u know what i mean? At the same time i have been tryin way to hard to get her attention and stuff because she hasnt been calling or texting me like she use to and its pretty much because of another guy (my teammate). I pretty much want feedback from y'all on what i should do. Now i know the answer is pretty much obvious (stop talking to her) but i do see her every other day because shes a softball player and we work out in the same area. What i want to do is to get her attention back, but at the same time avoid looking needy and doing crazy things that i wouldnt normally do. She hasnt been returning my calls or texts like she use to, so is it safe to say she is uninterested? and when i say she called me all time i mean she really did call me all the time. For 1 month at least it was 1 phone call plus texts a day. Now its like I am the one that is calling and texting w/ out any returns. Your ideas and comments are greatly appreciated.
Outcast777 Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 O.k. i'll give it a whirl. Look if you don't "need"( i am asuming that this meens that you don't have time for her, and won't cry over her in your sleep) her, but you still like her you have to let het go but keep in touch with her. Just because you are not avaible now does not meen that you won't be next year. Some ppl say that life is to shrot, others say it is too long, i just say that you need to live your life 1st then date her 2nd. I'd rather die an unmarried man than die a married one that has not lived his dreams. If i am sooo of the mark tell me and how i am off and i will see if i can do better.
Guest Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 actually i greatly appreciated your views. You werent off the mark and i know what your saying. The thing is and shes even told me this and i hella laughed, but she said I am trying too hard. is a busy girl and its hard to hangout w/ her. Matter fact i have never hung out w/ her just me and her, which is sad. What I was thinking about doing is just stop calling her and texting her because honestly she doesnt return anything like she did b4. 5 days ago i could count on her calling and or texting me on her own, but ever since my teammate cockblocked she has been talkin to me less. i dont kno if they are talkin, but chances are they are bc things have totally changed. The main thing is i want to hangout w/ her even if its just as friends, but i dont want to seem needy, which ive probably already have done so in her eyes. Soooo i gotta figure out a way to hangout w/ her and not seem needy...maybe calling her less? not talking to her at all for a couple days? what do y'all think?
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