dariendrake Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 I don't know what to do. I have not had a date or a Significant Other in almost ten years. Recently I got in touch with a Girl I know many years ago that I had and have feelings for. but in the years we've been apart she has been very hurt by other men. and can no longer trust men. She has informed me that the feelings I had for her were not mutual. she thought of me as her best friends brother. this recent dive into feelings I have not had in years has mest me up pretty bad. Extreme feelings of aloneness. that no one cares. I have even thought about takeing the long walk off a high building. I don't want to be alone anymore but I don't know what to do. my perspective of womens dating practises are: they meet a guy who is an ass hole but comes across as the bad boy they seem to like this. so they date them. then they get hurt. then the nice, good guys like me look around for women are age and all we find are man haters. who can no longer trust men, because some jack ass decided to get some ass, and left a mess behind. bagage, broken hearts, kids, all I want is to find someone to love who still has the capability to love and trust me. Is there such a thing and should I even keep up hope of finding it. or should I just become completely bitter, and just stay alone?
catrocks Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 I'm sorry you feel like this, it sucks to be depressed about these things. Stay friends with this girl, it's possible that you could help her be able to trust men again. If she has had that many bad experiences with a-holes then it's understandable that she doesn't trust men anymore. It may seem like it, but not all girls go for the a-holes/bad boys. I never really have. But some people are masochistic, and it is possible that you fall for the types of women who are looking for *******s rather than nice guys like you. Try not to think about it so much, I know this is a MAJOR cliché, but often people find love when they're not looking for it and in unexpected ways. Or perhaps you could join a dating site and try to find some girls who like nice guys. Really, trust me, they do exist. Just believe that and try to re-evaluate what you look for in a woman and you might be surprised. You shouldn't feel alone though. You should try to do something about it, take up a new activity on your spare time and meet new people or something. All hope is not lost. I'm sure that you will find someone, but just perhaps a different type of someone than you imagined! I hope that helped
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