dariendrake Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 I don't know what to do. I have not had a date or a Significant Other in almost ten years. Recently I got in touch with a Girl I know many years ago that I had and have feelings for. but in the years we've been apart she has been very hurt by other men. and can no longer trust men. She has informed me that the feelings I had for her were not mutual. she thought of me as her best friends brother. this recent dive into feelings I have not had in years has mest me up pretty bad. Extreme feelings of aloneness. that no one cares. I have even thought about takeing the long walk off a high building. I don't want to be alone anymore but I don't know what to do. my perspective of womens dating practises are: they meet a guy who is an ass hole but comes across as the bad boy they seem to like this. so they date them. then they get hurt. then the nice, good guys like me look around for women are age and all we find are man haters. who can no longer trust men, because some jack ass decided to get some ass, and left a mess behind. bagage, broken hearts, kids, all I want is to find someone to love who still has the capability to love and trust me. Is there such a thing and should I even keep up hope of finding it. or should I just become completely bitter, and just stay alone?
IrishCarBomb Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 I get the impression that you want to give up. You don't understand women, don't try and convince yourself that you do. Just stop being so dramatic, take a step back, and look at yourself objectively. Then take steps to improve yourself in any way. Once you realize that you have the power to improve yourself, you'll stop seeking so much validation from dating..... maybe even improve your self image a bit? Seriously though... calm the f**k down. Suicide over lonliness is rediculous.
sweettashia Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Hi I'm new to this forum but I wanted to tell you as a 33 yr old woman who is tired of the gameplayer etc... and the "bad boy syndrome" Women are more and more looking for the sweet guy to settle down with. So keep your chin up and get out there, you're not going to meet someone if you're stuck inside worrying about it. I truely believe there's someone out there for everyone.
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