Guest Posted March 14, 2007 Posted March 14, 2007 Hi all! Okay, I've been dating this girl for about 4 months now. She has a male friend whom she's known for twenty years. I totally trust them together alone and I am not threatened by him. I get the feeling, though, that I might be wasting my time, I think they might be soulmates. They have a lot in common. and they're smart to maintain a platonic relationship. I feel I'm being strung along in a sense. I would like someone I could keep, not someone's temporary BF until the day they DO realize they're soulmates. What should I do?
BeachBlonde Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 Why do you think they're soulmates other than the fact they have a lot in common? I wouldn't worry about anything, unless she's giving you any reason to think that she has feelings for this other guy.
kimberlyk Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 I think we need more info on their relationship together...and yours too... Do you talk about this issue with her...has it ever been a problem in the past...do you hang with them at all? Sometimes people can get along wonderfully but have no emotional feelings...it is also possible that if the other guy is single that he may have feelings for her, maybe even expressed this to her in the past, or not. Give us details...
Trialbyfire Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 Sometimes different levels of caring or lack from the mate of expressing their emotions towards you can lead to a feeling of being threatened by someone else. Please tell us more so we can get a better picture of what you're experiencing.
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