cbabe731 Posted March 14, 2007 Posted March 14, 2007 Okay so i met this guy online, he was trying to talk to me for 122 days i was preoccupied with other people then one day i finally started talking to him and decided to meet. i liked him from the first time we met we hit it off..he seemed so sweet soo nice he took me to a party with his friends there and stuff they all loved me, we hung out several more times..things moved really fast mostly on his part..he told me that he had just gotten out of a relationship in december for me it was november..he said he wasnt on the rebound but i find that hard to believe... i feel like we saw too much of each other too fast type thing cuz he was soo sweet and everything just meshed frm the beginning then he started acting all weird liek when i was aroudn his friends he started ignoring me like walking away from me when i approached him...not looking me in the eyes...acting like he was mad at me...i didnt feel like i was flirting with his friends or anything it was weird..i believe we hung out one other time and it was the same deal...after that it was a game of not calling me when he said he would and apoligizing the next morning or calling totally a different time one night i got this weird text calling me a bitch. i started crying and wrote him a email saying im sorry for adding your friend to myspace cuz thats what i thought it was about cuz i had no clue why he would call me that then the next morning he texted me saying sorry that was my ex gf the text came in at 1 30 am i was like screw that uh uh..not gonna happen on my turf he said he would call to explain everything and he should cuz i didnt even know he was still seeing her he didnt call until the NEXT DAY letting me suffer for that long. he claims they are JUST friends and he fell asleep at her house on the couch RIGHT and she took his phone when he was sleeping. i told him he needed to figure stuff out and he can have her but if he wanted me i wanted him to shape up...he told me we could be in a relationship and tell her that but she couldnt know we were having sex cuz they had a miscarriage and her mental health wasnt stable... i was like wtf...are you serious and made it clear to him by rejecting his invites to hang out the next couple times that i was pist and didnt want to see him anymore....2 weeks went passed and i asked him to return a piece of jewelry he had of mine to me he kept pushing me off so when he finally was like what are you doing ill give it back i acted busy u know to play the game back..when he tried talking to me on messenger i signed off and stuff or ignorred him ...the silent treatment was working great cuz the last two weekends lol he wanted to hang out but when i just wanted to meet up to get the bracelet he wouldnt meet but if i were to invite him over or to a party he would meet ..seems weird...and get this he had the audascity to ask me friday night do you have a bf now? your having a guy over thats why i cant come over ?!are you sleeping around? crystal that is how people get pregnant! then the next morning after i had a party at my place he was online and asked me if i got laid and when the last time i maturbated was?!!? i was like holy hell this guy is a CREEEEEP! later that night he wanted to "bring me my bracelet" i set a time and place but when i said it was just to meet not to hang out he got mad at me telling me the world doesnt revolve around me and that he is too busy and said "your acting like we broke up or something and we're just tryig to give our stuff back blah blah.is he nuts?! we are obviously over we have hardly talked for weeks and havent seen each other at all and im pretty sure hes been messing around with other people i dont get what the hell he is doing...i do know that i really liked him and he broke my heart when he stopped talking to me for that while and his ex gf texted me but i do know those comments he made to me creep me out ..and he has issues. my friends and i just want to get my bracelet back now i figure the only way is to invite him to a st pattys day party and make him bring it so he feels we are hanging out ...so i invited him through a email no response yet should be interesting when the weekend rolls around? what do you guys think? will i get my bracelet back? is this guy just a total idiot and thinks these things actually make a relationship? that those things are okay in a relationship? or is he just messing with my head? I need some input cuz its driving me crazy...and im not an inexperienced dater i just have never came across anything like this.
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