Guest Posted March 14, 2007 Posted March 14, 2007 Last year, my friend and I became very close and we started to grow strong feelings for one another (I'm the girl, he's the guy) even though we lived far away from each other. We talked almost everyday and would e-mail each other all the time (MSN and e-mail was our main source of communication). There was even a period where we had a fallout in our friendship but we got things back on track again. As this was all happening (strong feelings for one another, etc.), I started to notice that he was becoming more and more distant over time. He started going to his best friends house more often and it got to the point where he was starting to lose interest in going online. He would come online a few times a week and when I'd e-mail him, he'd barely respond back even though he said he still felt the same way about me as he did before. I let him know that it hurt how he was putting me on the back burner and I ignored him for a couple of weeks. I then e-mailed him, explaining why I ignored him and he e-mailed me back, saying that he was to blame for a lot of the reasons that things went wrong between us. And he said that I will always be his friend and that he loves me too much to just let me go. He's been even busier than before since he got a new job and now he barely comes online. I get an e-mail from him from once a week and that's it. Even though it's not a lot, the good thing is that he's actually making an effort to e-mail me back and keep in contact. What I want to know is.... Is it possible that he still has strong feelings for me like he used to or do you think he just wants to be friends? He's not the type to talk about his emotions so it's hard to figure out. Thanks so much!
LoveLace Posted March 22, 2007 Posted March 22, 2007 Nevermind, I know the answer.. ? That sounds like it was possibly a disappointing answer.. I'm sorry.
Guest Posted March 24, 2007 Posted March 24, 2007 Hi LoveLace At first it was disappointing but I'm actually happy I know the real answer. He didn't directly tell me, but I stumbled through one of his chat profiles and discovered where a lot of his attention has been going. He was becoming distant for quite a while and for a long time I had a gut feeling that he really didn't care about our friendship anymore and now that's confirmed. I was sick of worrying about where our friendship was heading but now I know that it's not going anywhere and I can finally say that I don't really care if he talks to me or not. I have closure so now I'll be able to move on It's actually quite a relief. Thanks though!
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