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firebirdlover
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Ok, so I have been dating my bf for almost 2 months now. We have been hanging out a few times every week when we can and talk to eachother every day on the phone. Now, the only thing that is wierd is the fact that in the first few weeks of the relationship he use to talk to me more the once or twice a day.. He use to send me text messages and stuff, but now we basically only talk once maybe twice a day. I know that is good already... but I just thought it was wierd as the the lack of conversation. Now, sometimes he calls me and tells me he is going to call me back and sometimes he does other times he doesn't.

 

Every so often he will feel the need to tell me about girls that message him on his online dating profile. He tells me that he writes back to them telling them that he is taken. I don't know if he is doing that to make me jealous or what. I'm not sure how to tell him that it kind drives me nuts. After soo many months when is it right to ask him to delete them? Today he told me that one girl messaged him with her address and phone number? What the hell? I mean I know he is totally trying to get a rise out of me... but why the head games?

 

How do I tell him that it bothers me when he tells me crap like that? I mean why would a guy that you are dating tell you about other girls wanting to get with him? He is jealous of guys hitting on me all the time... I just wonder if he is trying to make me the same way? Or is he trying to make me end the relationship. I mean I don't see any signs of that. He tells me he loves me and bought me something really nice for valentines day...

 

He has a few of them and says that he has paid money for them and didn't want to close them. That was about a while ago when I asked him. Maybe he is waiting for me to ask him to delete them...

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