Eric8918 Posted March 14, 2007 Posted March 14, 2007 Ok so First I would like to start that I haven't had a serious relationship in a while so I need all the advice I can get. Currently I am in High School as a senior and there is this girl in junior who I have a major crush on. I have bumped into her a few times and she seems nice and all, but I really have never talked to her since she seems shy and so am I. Since im in the school play with one of her best friends, I have heard a few of her interests and we seem like the "perfect match". I really want to ask her on a date to dinner or something but I have some major problems. The first one being that I have never really talked to her in a full conversation since we are in seperate grades, and we are both shy. Second being I am not sure weather to talk to her best friend (who I know quite well because of the play) about my interest in her or just go to her face and tell her how I feel and if she is interested. Thanks for reading, look forward to the replies
oppath Posted March 14, 2007 Posted March 14, 2007 FACE HER. Don't tell her how you feel. When you bump into her, say "I really wish we'd bump into each other more often since I always enjoy talking to you." Let her respond. If she responds positively, say "we should fix that and get to know each other better. Would you like to go out to x,y,z later this week?" You are in high school, dating is very awkward, there is not perfect thing to say at that age.
Author Eric8918 Posted March 14, 2007 Author Posted March 14, 2007 Ok, well heres another problem. I hardly ever see her on my daily routine. Should I just go and find her and face her even with her friends around?
alphamale Posted March 14, 2007 Posted March 14, 2007 well personallly I think you're too young to be in relationships with girls right now. You should concentrate on your studies and make something of yourself first. You'll have plenty of time for girls later on but just concentrate on yourself right now. Relationships at too young an age tend to distract one from their goals.
Author Eric8918 Posted March 14, 2007 Author Posted March 14, 2007 I have no serious subjects that require extra home time stuff.
Tom Welling Posted March 18, 2007 Posted March 18, 2007 Eric8918 I had the same problem when I was a senior shyness! But before I talked to my crush who is know my girlfriend I took a deep breath and talked to her. If you have a break go over to her and talk to her. And if she's walking walk with her and if there are doors in the way opem them for her. Or for your lunch tell her you guys need to know each other better. After a good 10-12 conversations ask her out.
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