Ladywithafan Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 Situation: My bf of eight years had a girl, druggie, crack whore you name it in our home while I was out of town for the day at class for my employer. My intuition had kicked in prior to leaving & I had put a new top in my bottom drawer wrapped in a sweatshirt. In the evening, when I came into the parking lot of my complex, I saw this girl leaving & she was all smiley at me. Came into the condo & my boyfriend was looking stuck stupid. I went to the bathroom & saw lipstick on a tissue in the basket, immediately went into the bedroom which is connected to bath & opened my drawer...well, you know it, the shirt was gone. I had not even taken the price tag off... I asked where my shirt was (in a rage because I've been through it with him years ago when he gave away my clother in his drug addiction). He said he didn't know. I told him I know my shirt is missing (the kicker: he had been shown the shirt but didn't know it was in my drawer)...and why was this girl in my room...he said he was in my drawers to get it for her because she needed a shirt...well, a pair of pants are also gone...later.... He is friends w/her mother, an old cracked out woman...whose house he went over to at Sunday night at 1:30 a.m. and didn't come home until 7 last night....(I turned his cell phone off yesterday morning)....I asked him if he had cooties...which set him off, we made up went out, he started talking to some other girl at the bar...I walked out & he never noticed....I drove home. He called, said he was at the 711 across from the street...I told him to keep going the same way he got to 711....he came home & went after me & grabbed me & I took his cell phone broke it in half & put it under the running water of the kitchen sink...(don't we do insane things when we have a momentary lapse of sanity)....then I left....came back 1/2 hour later. He quit his job four weeks ago, has been in possible hiding from authority & hasn't paid rent since the beginning of February.... I need some emotional support in how to deal with an 8 year relationship (like a marriage but w/o paper) because I'm about to snap.
Bree Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 get rid of him fast!!!! You don't deserve that kind of treatment and he is obviously not a man if he can't pay the bills. I had a man like that and i left his sorry ass and now i'm living with the love of my life who takes care of me, my dogs, and the bills. You should do the same Good luck
daphne Posted March 15, 2007 Posted March 15, 2007 If you think you can do no better than this loser, you are terribly mistaken. I would run as fast as my little legs could carry me. Or better yet, change the locks and let him figure out how to run from the law.
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