Guest Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 Hi everyone. I'm having massive problems because I don't know if I still love my girlfriend. We've been together for just over a year, but I found myself thinking about other girls and my attraction for her went a bit. We broke up for a month, but I found myself wanting to talk to her all the time, missing her, wondering what she was up to etc. Speaking to her brightened up my day, and whenever I saw her, which we still did as friends, it made me so happy. Sooo, last night I decided to ask her to get back with me, and she said yes. I know I enjoy spending time with her, I know I enjoy having her in my life, and I'm still attracted to her, though maybe not as much as I was to begin with. Is it wrong to be with somebody if I'm not sure if I love them? I don't know whether what I've lost is the love, or if its just the initial spark from the relationship thats gone. Is there any sure way to tell? If I missed her and wanted to speak to her all the time when we were on a break there must surely be something still there, I just don't know what! Thanks in advance for any advice.
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