sexywhisper Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 I have a boyfriend and everytime there is a situation (it can be simple or not simple) my boyfriend does NOT know how to hold his composure. We can talk about something and then he'll lash out and start to yell, even when the situation doesnt call for it. Example: I have a job that I work for 10 hours a day. I come home exhausted.... So I asked him if he could help me once in a while cook. I told him that he can heat up hot dogs or hamburgers. He can even make grilled cheese sandwiches. When I cook, I make big meals such as lasagna; spanish food; etc............. I don't care much what he makes, just something that would help me out. He started to yell and told me that he's not going to cook. He said if he cooks, that he's going to cook for himself only and no one else. He seems to be very selfish. I don't know what else to do. I'm really stressed out. Then when conversation is over, he starts to make comments to try to agitate me or bother me, so i can respond. He'll say things like " women these days get on my nerves, etc etc etc..........." Then he see's im on the computer doing some work, and he'll say things like "hurry up i need to get on the computer etc etc etc. " He'll keep on til I explode or say something. Then he'll lay there on the bed and smile like he enjoys this. someone please give me some advice.
stace79 Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 It sounds sort of like you're dating a big baby who wants someone to take care of him, but is not willing to do anything to help you out. Also, his antics of trying to irritate you after arguments is reminscent of a third grader. How old is he? I would ditch him. I would not put up with that. If I'm going to be in a relationship, there has to be some maturity and reciprocation of efforts.
a4a Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 dump his azz ...... the guy is a loser. Well have fun with him first.... do the same thing to him for about a week..... then dump the azzwhole.
Krytellan Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 Do you really need us to tell you he's a weenie or do you know that already???
kribby Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 GAH! Did I date your boyfriend???? I was with an yeller for a while... I convinced myself I was 'in love'. One day I got a clue and never looked back. Hopefully you posting here will lead you to a clue.... *Do dump him. You are wasting your time.
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