Mydish1 Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 Just curious, how often do you talk and meet your SO? And who is the one that initiates it? I just want to see what the norm is in a relationship or if there is one at all.
Krytellan Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 There won't be a norm. I talk daily with mine, no less than 10 minutes a day. She always calls when she leaves work. Otherwise, we will hang out all weekend together and maybe 1 or 2 weekdays.
Pyro Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 Just curious, how often do you talk and meet your SO? And who is the one that initiates it? I just want to see what the norm is in a relationship or if there is one at all. Just like Krytellan said, there is no norm for this situation. We talk on a daily basis. We talk to see how the work day is going and to make plans if we hang out that day, which we usually do, but we have our days apart when we get sick of each other. We both will do the initiating on different days so I couldn't say who does it more, but if I had to choose, it would be her.
Aloros Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 No norm. Each relationship develops differently. I see my bf every day after work and we spend weekends together. We usually call/email one another at least once during the weekday. Can't say who initiates. It kind of just happens. I think he usually calls me more and I usually email him more. I'm almost always at my desk, and he's very often in meetings or away at another building.
IpAncA Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 We talk on a daily basis. We talk to see how the work day is going and to make plans if we hang out that day, which we usually do, but we have our days apart when we get sick of each other. That must be nice. For me if I want to get away I have to go in the other room but even then at time it doesn't seem far enough. Sure I can always leave and go somewhere but I have to come back sometime.
Lauriebell82 Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 its a LDR, so we dont see each other during the weekdays, but spend the whole weekend together. we communicate during the week through text messages during the day, then talk on the phone every night. usually we take turns initiating what we are going to do that weekend. we alternate weekends (he comes to visit me at college one weekend, i'll come home to see him the next), so we do see each other pretty regularly. u probably wont find a norm, some couples are together constantly, some rarely see each other. depends on a lot things: work schedule, if there are kids in the picture, free time, school, ect. all i can say is, no matter how busy/not busy u are, if the relationship is strong and u love one another than all that just sort of falls into place.
Pyro Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 That must be nice. For me if I want to get away I have to go in the other room but even then at time it doesn't seem far enough. Sure I can always leave and go somewhere but I have to come back sometime. Well thats the difference between living together and not living together.
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