Guest Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 I have been with my boyfriend now for just about 3 months. Maybe this is strange-- but in the beginning (the first month or so) he rarely if ever, made eye contact with me... whether is was during conversation, laughter, sex, you name it. I remember this because it seriously bothered me and I almost (but didnt) bring it up to him! Now that we've been together longer, we've fought some and had deeper conversations and are just a lot closer in general. I notice that he usually always makes eye contact now... so it just got me to wondering what are some reasons as to why he wouldnt in the first place? Do you think it was because he was just shy, he wasn't that serious/committed, thats just how he was andhe picked up on me doing it, didn't like me that much.. or what? haha Just curious and wondering if anyone else has experienced something similar...
Fun2BMe Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 Maybe he's shy and avoids eye contact but feels closer to you and safer to look into your eyes now. Does he give eye contact to others?
BlueEyedSarah Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 I have been with my boyfriend now for just about 3 months. Maybe this is strange-- but in the beginning (the first month or so) he rarely if ever, made eye contact with me... whether is was during conversation, laughter, sex, you name it. I remember this because it seriously bothered me and I almost (but didnt) bring it up to him! Now that we've been together longer, we've fought some and had deeper conversations and are just a lot closer in general. I notice that he usually always makes eye contact now... so it just got me to wondering what are some reasons as to why he wouldnt in the first place? Do you think it was because he was just shy, he wasn't that serious/committed, thats just how he was andhe picked up on me doing it, didn't like me that much.. or what? haha Just curious and wondering if anyone else has experienced something similar... Sounds like he was shy to make eye contact.
Yamaha Posted March 13, 2007 Posted March 13, 2007 Some people are just uncomfortable with to much direct eye contact. I personally love lots of eye contact ( it is the best way to flirt ). Now that you know each other it is much easier to lock on these baby blues. Also he might have been afraid that you might see how he felt about you because you can't hide your feelings from your eyes.
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