Is it too late?

[AnyMuss85]

Alright everybody, I feel kind of weird doing this but I need some help.

Ok, a little over 3 years ago I became friends with this girl I thought was wonderful, I felt off the bet we had some odd connection even though we were complete opposites. I was hooking up with someone else at the time, by the time I had broken things off with the other person, me and the girl i speak off became pretty close, id like to say we were almost best friends. people always were under the impression that we were an item though, I always felt I had a very different relationship with her than my other chick friends. anyway I went away to college, and things got hard. she went back with an ex boyfriend. and when she told me that on line it she didnt sound happy about it. something along the lines "yea well im kinda back with mike so........" and after a while or friendship went bad after some things i shouldnt have said. we met up again about 6-7 months later, and after a long heart to heart patched things up, but things were still awkward, a couple more fights, and we didnt talk for a long time. she broke up with that boyfriend after about 2 years. i realized the ******* i had been and sent her flowers with a letter saying i had feelings for her (i think im in love) she sent me a message a couple days later saying they were beautiful and we would talk soon. so I ran into her , and she told me to come to a party she was having, anyway, at the party we got in an arguement I dont remember. Supposedly me saying things about bad things about her friends. So I told her I was sorry, it was because im jealous and asked her out 2 a bite to eat. she didnt respond, i told her just yes or no, its not a big deal if its no, still no response. Anyway we ran into each other at a bar, and I remember nothing about this. and my friends were no help on what had happened either. its been a while, since. I think about her all the time. Her ex boyfriend told me that she mentioned to him I was going after her, and he gave me some words of encouragment. ironic huh? well, how can I patch things up with this girl? is it too late right now? I cant go on being friends anymore though, its too hard. Anyone have any advice?

[LoveLace]

Well, to be jealous of her friends and let it show through your actions, by acting in a way that's out of character (like you did at the party)...it gives off a vibe of possessiveness. That'll scare off anyone. If she chooses to be your friend again, you will have to prove to her that you can control your actions. And talking about her friends is NO way to get positive attention from her. You should pay more attention to what your saying or doing, and weather or not it will offend someone else. Sorry to say though, after your behavior at her party, it might be too late...