numsey Posted March 12, 2007 Posted March 12, 2007 Okay, things are starting to get complicated. My fiance and I broke up like 2 weeks ago. For the most part is was an agreable break, mostly me. She tells me that she loves me more than anything but that she was feeling unsure of herself and that it wouldn't be fair to me. That she was feeling to "dependent" on me. She asked if we could still be friends and I said that I would give it a try on the agreement that if things were awkward that we would end it. She invited me over for dinner yesterday and I accepted. We ate and talked. Her mother was overly happy at seeing me again and she was all smiles and jumping around. I on the other hand was struggling throughout the entire night. When I went to leave I asked her if I could speak to her privetly. We went to her room and I told her that this was way to hard on me. I said I tried to look at her as just a friend but my feelings for her were way to strong and that I can't be friends with someone that I am in love with. She didn't say anything, she just got up and walked away. When I went to leave she wouldn't even look at me. Then she calls me at work this morning to apolagize for being so cold to me the night before. Then she starts crying saying that she can't sleep anymore and that she is so depressed and dosn't know what to do. I told her that I don't have the answers for her because I'm trying to figure them out myself. She tells me how her best friends life is so perfect with her new boyfriend and how it makes her sick because she ruined hers. What am I supposed to do here? Why is she doing this? I don't know if she wants to give it another try or if she is just screwing with my mind because she knows she can.
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