Guest Posted March 11, 2007 Posted March 11, 2007 Hello girls and guys. I'm usually great with women. Known as a womanizer. But, well, I'm a tad confused. I met a girl and she sees right threw me. Recognized me as "a player"and noticed many of my usual nice things she calls "tricks". She thinks I'm sexy and sweet (her friends told me). And she made it very clear she likes me herself. She suggested we should meet and so we did. She was nervous as hell at first, but we had a great time. Chemistry and fun wise I would rate it like an 8. She shows all the signs I ussually judge as really possitive. Waited a while before having contact again and texted her. Wanted to call her but she started talking to me on MSN. Asked her for a second date. First she was enthousiastic, but on the day I wanted to go she says she doesn't have time this week. She said: "We talk about this later with my agenda at hand" (This is a remark I genuinly made when she asked when I had time to go out, my agenda is always full, I have lots of dates and social events) For me not coming up with an immidiate moment for the second date means, screw you girl, I'm going to spend time with the others that do have time! So in my usual way (having fun myself!), I made it clear that I would like a normal answer and I even used my personal favorite: If you are going to say something about becoming friends I suggest you buy a dog. She didn't say that. Well I had a laugh, and she did have one as well. But things got weird. She ended the conversation saying; now it's time for me to try my tricks on you..... Okay, I don't like this. On the one hand I'm impressed by her intelligence and the fact she's different then most girls I dated. On the other I don't want a girl messing with me. Although I guess I deserve it. Possible explanations -She's A moralist trying to take me down just for the sake of all the women in the world. -She doesn't like the fact I waited calling her (sources point at that). What I will do (my own idea): -No contact at all, I'm not even going to say hello on MSN (unless she says something herself) -See what she will do The fact she starts about her playing tricks on me means she's thinking hard about this. I think she is either testing me, if this will make me a wussy chasing her, desparate for some love or maybe she's nasty trying to give me some hope. Or she just doesnt have the guts to say she doesn't like me (wich strikes me as odd, judging the way she acted and the things she said before). What do the experts here think? (I'm not asking for people responding that I'm a mindgame playing *******. I'm always respectfull to women and have never used any human being.)
3hundred Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 It seems like you play the game well with your rules on home turf... and it also seems you have found your match.. I suggest you play the game with her rules this time... doesnt mean that you will have to chase her, but it could be a very nice challenge for you to have to guess her actions and play your hand accordingly. I think you can learn the rules no problem and this may turn out to be the best challenge..
bridget_jones Posted March 20, 2007 Posted March 20, 2007 The number one rule of these types of rules, though, is don't announce you're doing them. then you've just blown it. She is such an amateur, agreeing to a date and then doing the 'let me check my agenda' when you try to confirm, that doesn't make any sense because you asked her out well in advance. I don't know what she's trying to accomplish, she's being too obvious, and really she is showing that she is absolutely crazy about you because she is trying too hard to do hard to get. she started out by blowing a cardinal rule also...asking you out. big no no for a woman. So...IMO she's whipped over you, you've got her. You don't even have to try. She thinks she's being cool and reserved and mysterious, well she's the opposite of that.
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