leilab Posted March 11, 2007 Posted March 11, 2007 I cannot believe it......here it is 3 years later almost to the date that he tossed me aside and went to work it out with his wife. And the guy leaves me a message to find him at a hotel, with the room number. At a place about 5 hours from here. Is he serious?? He had told me he was leaving his wife, then next thing I know I am thrown out as trash - pregnant - and he never calls until now. Unbelievable... I spent the last years rebuilding my life after he vanished out of my life. Leaving me to pick up the broken pieces. I cried every night for I dont know how long. Countless sessions here, and reading self help books. Now, he thinks I am going to run to find him at some motel room and start all over again?? Could any guy really think that I would forgive, forget and put myself in that situation again???
Island Girl Posted March 11, 2007 Posted March 11, 2007 Of course he can. He had no regard for your feelings and emotions ever before - only his own. So he is not thinking of them now - only his own. You're right it is unbelievable -- but I hope you have a very clear perspective of the kind of man you are dealing with and you stay the hell away from him. Did you have the baby -- ? If so I hope you have been getting child support from the pathetic loser.
whichwayisup Posted March 11, 2007 Posted March 11, 2007 Now, he thinks I am going to run to find him at some motel room and start all over again?? Could any guy really think that I would forgive, forget and put myself in that situation again??? Yes, sadly for him, he probably thinks you'll go running back to him, with open arms and pick up where you two left off. What a fool. Don't even bother replying to him, by phone or by email. IGNORE HIM.
GreenEyedLady Posted March 11, 2007 Posted March 11, 2007 Try not to give him a second thought...unless you're going to have to deal with him for visitation... I'm sorry he treated you so badly...I hope you're in a better place now so that you're not even tempted to go... The fact that you see how pathetic his attempt to see you is so disrespectful and crude is good... Don't ever go back...
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