Guest Posted March 10, 2007 Posted March 10, 2007 Hello. I really need some help with a complicated matter. I am from Canada. This is my situation: I dated a married man named, B, for 3 years. We bought a boat (financed) and 2 other cars which I paid for (free and clear) and leased a car. I lived at his home for 3 months before we broke up. He "worked for me" during some of the 3 years, taking 50% of my business's income. He actually did no work, just mooched and lived off me. We broke up. He wanted to continue working together, I said no. Gave him 3 months to find a different job. He wanted more money, started threatening me and demanding it. He wants 9 months "severance" (we have never had a actual contract, he was never an employee). I refused. He then refused to give me my cars, my modeling clothing (HUGE expensive wardrobe), photography equiptment, my TV/computer, my filing cabinet etc. The amount of money this is all worth is over 100 thousand dollars. The only thing I have is the LEASED mercedes. He does not pay towards the boat that is in his posession. It is currently bouncing out of my bank account because I refuse to pay for something I do not posess! I am UNABLE to file tax because he has my filing cabinet. I am a 23 year old, he is 35. He is nothing more than a sick predator. He met me when I was 17!!!!!!!!!!!! He threatened me and so i changed my phone numbers. I feel scared for my safety and cannot talk to him. I feel this sitation is impossible. i am advised by police to get a restraining order. but how on earth do i get my things back with a restraining order? The police have been extremely unhelpful, saying they would put through to the court for an arrest warrent on extortion charges. To get the rest they said i need a lawyer. Every lawyer i talk to is slow and seems impossible... I have been trying to work with one for MONTHS, and just today i find out they have done absolutely nothing. I broke up with B in JULY of 2006. I am so upset and anxious this is really impairing my life. I feel afraid for my safety stressed out and just very upset. I need to get this dealt with so much!!!!!! If you have advice for me with this PLEASE let me know.
Ruff Ryder Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 he wont give it back????? Take it back, you sound like you have the cash to get a body guard so do it and go and get your stuff....
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