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The same thing for women. A respectable woman will not go out of her way for a spineless POS woman hater.

 

Ha ha! Word.

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I feel that women as well as men are equal and equally born with their capacities to "love" as in that I doubt a female "loves" her grandparents any less equally than a male grandson.

However, when speaking of "romantic" love I also feel that both are equal regarding its strength BUT the expression/ action and more especially how one RELATES to love via perception does differ.

Whether this may be soley gender related (from birth) or environmental and with any and all combination of birth/ environmental; it would seem that genders perceive and relate to love differently.

I think it may be a little of both. One (and only one of several) proven aspect of the female gender is that they are normally verbal accute in expression, using words earlier, expressing through verbal communication where male children tend to do this a bit later (but as just as well).

Male children (again, only one of many generalized aspects of male child behaviors) seem more adept about keen observance and often are more interested in "mechanics" as in how things "work". Female children are as natural and tend to do this just a bit later but not as well, if at all.

Being that one adapts to society as opposed to society adapting to the individual, then one would naturally adapt to what works better for them.

Male children must talk, eventually, so this is encouraged but female children have not been so required to futher mechanical thought...

A natural factor in both is that men are normally expected to be physically stronger and for the most part ARE physically stronger, thus, they are more adept to certain gender oriented scenarios just as are women expected to become adapted to their lesser physical roles.

Too bad that society doesn't pay equally, but I digress...

Dumbed down (and if any of this were/ is true):

Females think more verbally and males more of observation. Both work very well, as one verbally thinks it out until convinced and the other observationaly thinks it out until convinced. Both compliment.

And what are the semi-current required enviromental aspects of gender behavior? Girls are allowed feelings and boys are practically required to "suck it up; be tough". Much antiquated more than currently actually supported, but these male/female roles remain intact.

We've supposedly and fairly allowed women and men to "trade" roles, but do we respect them? Women in power: "bitches", men at home "wimps".

Men in power: "virile and attractive". Women empowered: still "bitches"

Neither is fair.

Differentiating the capacity to love isn't "fair" either.

BUT it is an honest and fair question about whether we would choose to allow one or the other to be equal, in eachs' complimentary way so there is a LOVING and FAIR balance.

Love must, no matter what gender, by birth, environment, or influence be honorable, respectable and honest between both male and female.

There should be a fair balance; not a contrived reality.

If anything all these "studies" prove is that we DO compliment, niether are undermined by being different, but are EQUAL in balance.

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