Mydish1 Posted March 10, 2007 Posted March 10, 2007 I suppose im posting here just to get confirmation from you guys, but my gut tells me that this girl is merely in it for the self-esteem boost and has no interest whatsoever. I dont care if she says she has school 5 days a week, so do i with work involved but i can still make time to answer my phone no doubt - at least most of the time. Last time i went on a date with this girl and ended with a kiss good night...the date went ok but she was passive/submissive/quiet throughout. So this week i tried setting something up and gave her a call yesterday - no pick up so i left a message to ring me back, it went back and forth (on my end i didnt hear the phone ring), so i left the ball in her court before the night ended. Today she rang me back, but my phone messed up and i couldnt hear her speak. i hung up and immediately rang her back...nothing. so i left a voicemail apologizing about my phone and told her to ring me back. Well...whether or not she believes me there's nothing i can do about it. She hasnt called back and dont think she will. Personally Im not up for asking out a girl with a voicemail message, its easy not to call someone back when you know why they called. I have her home #, maybe i should call that instead since it's easy to ignore someone's call on the cell...But again if she doesnt want to talk to me on the cell why force her to talk to me on her home phone. Dating shouldnt be this difficult but she is making this difficult. There is a possibility that she thinks im playing hard to get and she's doing the same. There's the possibility that her interest level is just low. What i can do: Call her tomorrow and whether or not she picks up, drop a message into her voicemail/ ask her out for the date on that day...at least it shows im not trying to **** around with games. (if she wasnt interested from teh start, this will just reinforce her ego). Im giving her the option to meet me for the date or not, if not no biggie...i leave the ball in her court and move on. Never call her again...and who knows maybe she'll call me down the line once she believes that I moved on - and her with the perception that i was playing games. But seriously i wont tolerate a girl with or w/o low interest playing games like these. What do you guys think she is? And should i try calling one last time or not?
Guest Posted March 10, 2007 Posted March 10, 2007 youve made it clear that you want to talk to her. if shes interested, she'll call you back.
Author Mydish1 Posted March 10, 2007 Author Posted March 10, 2007 Ok nevermind, she got back to me. We were able to set up a date for the following day. I dont know if its her friends or her mom that's teaching her how to play the game..she's not bad at it at all..
Star Gazer Posted March 10, 2007 Posted March 10, 2007 She's not playing games. Reread your post and look at how you haven't answered your phone because you couldn't hear it, your phone was malfunctioning, etc. She could be assuming the worst about you too!
Author Mydish1 Posted March 10, 2007 Author Posted March 10, 2007 She's not playing games. Reread your post and look at how you haven't answered your phone because you couldn't hear it, your phone was malfunctioning, etc. She could be assuming the worst about you too! Im sure there's a little playing hard to get going on. a little on my side too as i have my own life to deal with. why do i say she is? the only time i get to talk to her on the phone is when she calls (cause i pick up) but not when i call..but the general case is she is returning my phone call. funny how over the course of 2 days we passed the ball to each other 6x. yea..**** happens. my phone gets a little screwy sometimes..which sucks for whoever calls me. turns out her service crapped on her tonight, she wound up calling me from her home number...better late than never! But seriously...watchout for bad service providers..they can really create misunderstanding between ppl.
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