Heartache11 Posted March 10, 2007 Posted March 10, 2007 Hi everyone. I am having a rough night and thought I should post here instead of calling the ex. I just got home from school for spring break. Home is also where the ex is and we would spend so much time together on my breaks. Well, I want so badly to call him but I am holding strong. He has called me a lot the past three days just to talk about his life and ask for game scores while he is out. I have been nice and try not to bring up the relationship too much. When I ask him why he is doing this, he says he doesn't know. He just has to. I also was told by one of his friends last night that he told the friend "he was probably gonna get back together with me". Now, I don't know if this is over break or in the future. Either way, that has gotten me all upset and when he called last night I asked him if he still wanted the break up and he said yes. He knows I am home now and hasn't called me. I am on edge and none of my friends are home. Does he want to get back together, is he playing a game? How should I react? He's treated me so horribly in the past and if we got back together, there would have to be major discussions and changes on both our parts. He said "maybe" to seeing me while home. I guess I'm just venting. Any suggestions on how to handle this? Thank you.
Author Heartache11 Posted March 10, 2007 Author Posted March 10, 2007 Quick Update: He called late last night and was very cold, just making conversation about me getting home and when I'm working. I asked to hang out and he said he is pretty busy, he doesn't know. I wound up breaking down and crying, him saying he can't deal with me like this, and hanging up. I called back, he picked up, said he was going to bed, goodnight. I guess that wasn't promising.
ratingsguy Posted March 10, 2007 Posted March 10, 2007 He's treated me so horribly in the past and if we got back together, there would have to be major discussions and changes on both our parts. Not to sound cold, but I think you should move on and go NC with this guy. You've pretty much answered your own question with the above statement. It's MUCH easier to find someone who will treat you right as opposed to changing someone who won't. I wish more people understood that.
Author Heartache11 Posted March 11, 2007 Author Posted March 11, 2007 Not to sound cold, but I think you should move on and go NC with this guy. Deep down, I think I know this. But I can not bring myself to do it. I'm just letting him walk over me and I see it. But I can't stop it. I'm sitting here a nervous wreck right now. I've let him do this to me for so long I can't stop it.
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