Resilient1 Posted March 9, 2007 Posted March 9, 2007 Hey ladies, Have a question for you. In an everyday setting or at a bar or practically anywhere do you find yourself accepting more advances from guys that you haven't really noticed or from the guy that has made eye contact with you first and has made himself known. Do you think eye contact is essential or the key or is it a smile that provokes your interest. Of course it's looks as well but do you think guys should just try to make a move without getting that encouraging smile or eye contact from you right back??or are we setting are selves up for failure.. basically do girls ever fall for the laid back, funny when it's right or kinda shy type anymore..? im somewhere in the middle but curious??
laRubiaBonita Posted March 9, 2007 Posted March 9, 2007 unless i am LOOKING for eye contact..... i do not see it. so if some dude from across the room has an interest, how would i know unless our vibes were totally in tuned? make a simple friendly gesture.... say hi, introduce yourself and make the eye contact.
Guest Posted March 9, 2007 Posted March 9, 2007 I did... I knew this guy from work, just friendly really, wasn't attracted to him (not my type typically) we spoke a bit but not alot (we are both shy), then one night a bunch of us went out after work, he was there. I caught him looking at me and he gave me a little smile, we started talking and found we shared the same sense of humour, and from that night had an amazing attraction. So yes, speaking from my experience it does happen, mystery is good.
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