no_idea Posted March 8, 2007 Posted March 8, 2007 Sorry if this gets long, but at this point all take any advice I can get. We started talking over the phone about 8 or 9 months ago. She is really great. We stopped talking for a few months because of her boyfriend but when things went down hill with him we started talking again. This has been over the past 2 months or so. Well now I am finding myself going out of my way to just see her, take her flowers, cards, little stuffed animals and the like, taking her to dinner, things like that. (I live about an hour and half from her) She has started calling me darling, baby, and then there is the love you I get too, but I really don't know what she wants. I sent her an e-mail and asked her over the phone what she wants from me but I get little response. I asked er the other day about not getting a reply to my e-mail and she said it is complicated......what is so complicated about telling me what you want from me, friends or more than friends. Well I have gotten to the point that I am just about to kiss her the next time I see her to find out what happens. Would this be wrong? I mean it is not like we are dating, I guess we are not, neither of us have ever called it a date when we have gone to dinner. Usually I will just call her or send her an e-mail with a quick question of how about dinner tonight? Though yesterday while I was talking to her on the phone before we went to dinner we were talking about a car that was out in my apartment complex parking lot and she said she would love to have it so jokingly I said I would just go steal it for her. Then her next words were, I don't think that would really be a good idea since I am dating a cop, that is not me, some other guy she met. I don't get it. I get this baby, darling, and love you stuff but I can't get an answer as to what you want from me and then the entire dating a cop thing. We ended up going to dinner last night and she mentioned something about things being difficult lately. I said to her how difficult can things be, you have a good job, a boyfriend, people that care about you. Of course I got the "I don't have a boyfriend" so at least I know she is not in a serious relationship with this other guy. Everytime we go out we have a great time together and she is so wonderful and just the thought of her can make the worst days so much better. Are we dating? Should I kiss her since I can't get an answer to my question?
clueless24 Posted March 9, 2007 Posted March 9, 2007 give her a goodnite kiss and see how she reacts. if she's calling you baby and being lovey dovey then she's probably interested in you, i wouldn't call anybody baby or say i love you if it is meaningless. good luck
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