missing her

[Doogiealcala]

I used to be with a girl for five years and throughout those five years i took her for granted and didnt appreciate what i had!! after so many break ups and arguments she got fed up with me and broke up with me!! me being the ******* that i used to be didnt care and talked **** to her!! after about a month i really started to miss her and i realised how much i really love her. so i tried to talk to her and go back to her, but she was didnt want to speak to me or ever here from me and she completely dissed with bad words and hurtful things the same way I had once treated her!! its been about 6 months since and last week i went over just to see how her and her brother were doing and she was talking to me but like whatevers!! then i said bye and left soon after i got a phone call from her brother asking me questions like if i have a new girl, and if still have feelings for his sister and i told him that i cant picture me being with anyone else. then he said well why dont you try talking to her like friends. then the other day i found out that her car had been stolen and they were struggling with rides and stuff so i offered to help her but she didnt reply at all. so i emailed her and the same thing. so i told her brother what had happened and he said well mayb she doesnt really now whats going on!! i asked him if she had told him anything about me having a chance or anything and he said no, but trust me you might still have a chance! i didnt kno what he meant by that and i dont kno. I have really grown up since and i have matured into a better man but she hasnt given me the chance to show her and then again she hasnt told me to stop texting her or emailing her like she did before!! so i just really hope that i have chance to spent time with her and let her kno that i am more mature and a different man!! what do u guys think you think i she still has feelings for me? do u think i still have a chance? or should i just try to move on even though i kno its close to impossible cuz i really love her!! i would really appreciate it if you guys can give me some feedback thanks

[Trialbyfire]

Don't crowd her too much but try to stay in contact. Try to help her whenever you can, if she'll let you. If she doesn't, back off for awhile. The more times you show her that you're there for her, the more she might believe that you've changed. It sounds like you're in the negative credit zone so it will be a hard grind uphill.

 

I hope you've sincerely apologized to her in person.

 

Most of the things I'm suggesting leave no room for pride or ego. It's up to you whether you're willing to go to these lengths or not. Also, there's never a guarantee that anything will work.