clynn Posted March 8, 2007 Posted March 8, 2007 I'm really happy in my relationship with my boyfriend. We haven't yet talked about moving in together, or getting married either, or our long term future. While my hope is that it is because we are both a bit nervous to talk about it, my fear is that he doesn't necessarily see it going that way. We have talked / joked about babies though and he did once ask me about whether I had a baby deadline.......... Either way, feel we might want to talk about it. How do I start that conversation? Or should I wait for him to bring it up?
Lauriebell82 Posted March 8, 2007 Posted March 8, 2007 how long have u guys been together? no matter how long u have been together though, it semes that this is never an easy subject to talk about. my bf and i have never really talked about marriage or moving in together or anything. granted we've only been together 6 months but its a very serious relationship. i CASUALLY brought up the issue, and he says he sees a future with me. that was enough for me and i dropped it. anyway, when it comes to moving in together, i think it is both partner's decision, but men (granted not always) i think should be the ringleader on that one. my bf told me he wasnt ready to move in with anyone. maybe ur bf just isnt ready for marriage/moving in together stuff. if its a serious relationship and u know he loves u, just enjoy being with him and let ur relationship progress.
Author clynn Posted March 8, 2007 Author Posted March 8, 2007 It is serious, we've both said that. And I do feel confident that he loves me. I wonder if maybe he feels too shy actually to bring it up, and so I should. We've been together over a year.
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