EnigmasMuse Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 For those of you that have had problems in your relationships, have they gotten any better? Do you feel things are looking up? Any worse? Or do you feel you are still stuck in the same rut you were in a few weeks, months, or even years ago?
JackJack Posted March 8, 2007 Posted March 8, 2007 For those of you that have had problems in your relationships, have they gotten any better? Do you feel things are looking up? Any worse? Or do you feel you are still stuck in the same rut you were in a few weeks, months, or even years ago? Well now, you know that if they are still here, then chances are things have not improved.
Kwo-ne'-she Posted March 8, 2007 Posted March 8, 2007 Well now, you know that if they are still here, then chances are things have not improved. Not always true! I just like reading about relationships, and try to respond to those in situations I have been in, hoping to help them some.
JackJack Posted March 8, 2007 Posted March 8, 2007 Not always true! I just like reading about relationships' date=' and try to respond to those in situations [b']I[/b] have been in, hoping to help them some. I know, I was just joking.
a4a Posted March 8, 2007 Posted March 8, 2007 Things are 98% better here...... H still on probation with the Tater though. Now work is killing me....... I have over diversified! Sneaking onto LS is my outlet right now....... I have to really behave in RL. Smile and remain in control..........
Walk Posted March 11, 2007 Posted March 11, 2007 For those of you that have had problems in your relationships, have they gotten any better? Do you feel things are looking up? Any worse? Yes and no.. I read that nearly all couples will have one problem that will always remain an issue throughout the relationship. (The issue depends on the couple.) So the trick was to find a way to deal with the conflict to keep the relationship intact, and yet be able to live with the issue unresolved with out it festering into an abcess of hatred and resentment. Anyway... I have issues in my relationship that were HUGE when we started dating. I think we learned (still learning) how to appropriately deal with conflict that we don't always see eye to eye on. I guess the way I see it is (and I could be extremly wrong in this view), most problems can be worked through to at least allow both parties to feel good in the relationship, but it takes a hell of a lot of hard work... and the amount of work you put in depends on how much you're getting out of the relationship. If your partner isn't putting much effort into it.. then maybe those problems aren't worth working through. If both people are putting their all into the relationship, but there's a problem you're both stuck on.. then maybe it's worth the extra effort to find a way to keep the relationship alive until a suitable resolution can be found. And if both parties are willing to find a solution and comprimise, then it can be worked through. Its when one or both stop trying to understand the other, stop trying to comprimise, stop putting in the effort to keep the relationship strong... then a "break up" of the relationship should be made. This doesn't apply to all situations, and it's highly generalized... so take it with a grain of salt.
ShoeGirl Posted March 11, 2007 Posted March 11, 2007 For those of you that have had problems in your relationships, have they gotten any better? Do you feel things are looking up? Any worse? Or do you feel you are still stuck in the same rut you were in a few weeks, months, or even years ago? The problem I was having when I first found LS is 100% fixed because I broke up with the guy I have had a few problems with new relationships but nothing major
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