yes Posted November 21, 2002 Posted November 21, 2002 No, i don't mean sexually Here's the type of story i dont understand: I have a friend, he likes this girl. He's been talking to her, walking her to the subway, etc - it's absolutely obvious to everyone by now that he likes her. However, it took him a good 2 months to ask her to go to a movie with him. What on earth was he waiting for? Another story: a friend of mine and her ex. he keeps telling her that he misses her, that he forgives her the reason they broke up, etc. BUT he keeps the communication down to IM, won't call her; she said he mentioned going out for dinner once, and she said maybe, and he never brought it up again. what the hell's with this guy? if he wants her back, he'd just step up and ask for a date, no? and if not, why does he keep telling her that he misses her and all that? I don't really get it - if you like someone, go for it; if u don't - just leave them alone! What am i missing here? -yes
Ally Boo Posted November 21, 2002 Posted November 21, 2002 Guys are just as afraid of rejection as we are. Haven't you read articles in magazines that tell you that if you wanna pick up a guy, you have to be alone, not with friends, to save them the embarassment if you turn them down? They just wanna be sure.
Author yes Posted November 21, 2002 Author Posted November 21, 2002 that sounds reasonable. and that's very true btw! standing/sitting alone is THE way to get picked up. so - i suppose the gals can provide some encouragement if they're interested .... -yes
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