NTT148 Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 I have a really really close friend who's a girl, and we used to hang out a lot and have a lot of fun, i really liked her, and after about a year, i told her that i liked her, but... i misunderstood what she was telling me... and i didn't know she was indirectly telling me that she really liked me too... and so... i thought she was saying she just wanted to be really good friends, and around the same time i met this other girl, and i started hanging out with her, and after 4 months we told each other we liked eachother, we also had alot of fun with the time we spent together, and... well we knew we both liked eachother, but we just hanged out more, we're still not really bf/gf... but lately... this is about 1 month after we told eachother, im starting to feel like she's not interested in me anymore... and just yesterday... i was talking to my really close friend... and i just found out that she was actually saying that she liked me.... and that she still does.... and so... i don't know what to do.... cause.. it seems like this girl im with right now, we're starting to not spend as much time as we used to etc, and i don't feel the same about her, but i still like her a lot, but then i think im starting to sorta like my really close friend again.... :S
LN99 Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 Ok, you know the friend who says she likes you? You need to talk to her. You both seem to be having a big communication problem. In order to make a relationship work, you need to communicate. I don't care how awkward it is, but it does HELP to be on the same page. It sounds like you both are, but your timing is off and you both are just confusing the heck out of each other! (Especially with you going off and dating other people after you both confess your feelings for each other....) So, if you really like this friend of yours, go for it already! As for the other girl, if the feeling isn't there anymore, then its just not there! No need to beat yourself up about it. It sounds to me like you are young. So therefore, you're probably not out there to look for someone for the long haul. So why not go for what you truly want with the other girl? You will never know until you try.
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