Guest Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 My daughter's father and I haven't been with each other in 2 years because he left me to go back with his old girlfriend. Any ways of course I'm a single mom doing this thing by myself. Well........I took him for child support so he holds that over my head all of the time. The thing is we live in a different state as him and he is always telling me to come back so he can be with his daughter. I'm like well when we were there, you weren't helpful at all. Then last night I had like a weird dream that him and his girlfriend well in my dream they were married. Well, they were arguiing really bad because I vaguely remember everything but I think it had something to do with him talking to me, but I know he is so over me. I think.....not sure, but it seem like he was trying to get back with me. Now, don't get me wrong I don't want him back but just curious about why did I have this dream about him. I wasn't even thinking about him. I do want to be with someone else.
quankanne Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 dreams are funny – they either reflect your deepest desires or your worst "what if" ... my guess it's a case of the latter with your dream! I took him for child support so he holds that over my head all of the time. am going to get on my soapbox for a bit on this topic ... What the hell do people think the money is collected for in the first place? TO HELP RAISE THE KIDS!!!! Granted, there are custodial parents who abuse the system, but that doesn't change the fact that the money is intended for the little ones until they're old enough to support themselves. most of my sibs have been divorced; all have kids. My sisters went by the letter of the law to make sure their kids received the money they were due under child support laws, and didn't give their husbands an inch otherwise. And good for them. fast forward to just a couple of years ago, when my brother was trying to get the custody and child support issue resolved. My sisters went ballistic, calling his exwife every name in the book for doing what they did 15 years ago with their own kids! Now how the hell do they expect that child to be cared for? For several years, my former SiL is raised that child on her own, on a piddly salary while my brother dragged his feet. She remarried, and her new husband is doing a wonderful job of raising my niece … and my brother is in jail for almost a year now for failing to comply with his court agreement to pay back child support. And my sisters are STILL acting like bxtches about the whole issue. I don't think it's right that people think their cases are special, that they don't need to contribute to the welfare of the child just because they don't have custody of the kid – the law was put into place to ensure the child wasn't the one getting punished financially for the break up of his/her parents. ugh ... I'll stop ranting for now, but I leave you with this thought: If your ex entered into an agreement to help support your little one, he's morally obliged to stick by that agreement.
princesspeaches Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 dreams hardly ever mean what you dream. If you dreamed that everything means something else, if you want to dissect your dream you have to look things up separately and put it together. It is also a belief that the things you dream is your subconscious trying to tell you something. Unless your particularly clairvoyant and you "see" the future, I wouldn't think that this dream means you want him back....maybe that you'd like him to have a more active role in his daughters life....
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