Guest Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 What is the longest period of NC that you have ever had, whether it was instigated by the OP or the MM/MW? Who broke NC and was the person who didn't break it, always pleased to resume the affair, or was it sometimes more difficult to just take up where you had left off?
cbl Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 um, i think it depends on how you define NC. NC for me means moving on. no contact whatsoever. more like a good bye. my longest one is about 4 years and 3 months and i am still counting.
overandout Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 Nine months was the longest NC--I initiated it and he broke it but I was annoyed that he had left it so long. I had convinced myself that it was really over and was moving on and then he phoned out of the blue. But he was only offering to resume the affair and I gave him a hard time, saying I was busy in and out of work and was particularly happy. I honestly think 9 months is just too long to leave it before making contact. He didn't phone again, he had "done enough" to wet my appetite and I contacted him a couple of months later and resumed--yes mug! After that we had several smaller bouts of NC and when I contacted to resume he was more than willing, but that was before his wife became suspicious.
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