milxam7 Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 Well there's this girl that i flirt with a lot, and i know she's interested in me and i like her also. But she tells me that she's not emotionally ready and afraid of being hurt. What do i do to make her feel more comfortable with me i guess or to get her into a relationship?
beachlover Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 You can't get her to start a relationship with you. If she says she is not emotionally ready then you have to respect that. Go ahead and spend time with her, take her to lunch, whatever but DON'T pressure her into a relationship. If you work at gaining her trust she will eventually come around, when she is ready.
LN99 Posted March 7, 2007 Posted March 7, 2007 Yeah, you did all you could by putting yourself out there. She made it clear that she just wasn't ready. So in the meantime, its best to just go with the flow. Maybe in time she will learn to trust you and then go for it. But in the meantime, keep your options open. In the long run, things will either happen between the two of you, or they won't.
Author milxam7 Posted March 7, 2007 Author Posted March 7, 2007 ya well she's really busy and a drama girl at school, but usually when were out she's really shy and is really sheltered from the world. But when were together just watching movies at my place we usually cuddle. So she tells me she's interested can i do more to make the process go faster to make her feel more comfortable?
Krytellan Posted March 8, 2007 Posted March 8, 2007 What she means is she likes flirting but doesn't want a relationship with you. It just happens sometimes. She's trying to be nice about it.
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