soulseeker Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 Hello all. Been posting here a while as a guest, finally signed up. As a merchandiser, my job is to go to a variety of stores for a variety of reasons. Long story short, I met this guy at one of the stores I go to weekly. He always goes out of his way to talk to me. We talk about what we like to do in our spare time, etc. He even bought me some candy that I said I really like, from the store mind you. He always asks me when I will be in again, etc. Anyway, I think I may be getting jaded, but he is interested in me, right? Thing is, we have run into each other like this for a month (four times total), but he has not asked me out. Is that a big red flag that he is NOT into me? Or am I just being silly? I would ask him out, but to be honest, I am not sure what I am looking for, so I would feel bad asking him out. I feel that if he asked me out I could say up front that I am not sure what I am looking for and that could be ok. I am attracted to him, we laugh a lot, I find myself thinking about him, and if I knew I wanted a relationship, I WOULD ask him out. Thoughts? Thank you.
dropdeadlegs Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 I think he is interested, but some guys will do this for quite awhile before asking you out. Has he inquired if you have a boyfriend? Is he asking pointed questions that seem to be leading up to asking you out? Or does it just feel like pleasant chitchat?
magichands Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 He always goes out of his way to talk to me. I love being stalked.
ratingsguy Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 Thoughts? Thought is your enemy. You're overthinking this. If you know he's single, just ask him out! The worst he can say is no thanks. Go for it! Good luck.
lindya Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 I love being stalked. Then you'll like my new avatar. Onto the topic of you, soulseeker...why don't you just suggest a coffee. Keep it brief so that there aren't any particular expectations or pressures, but by asking him he'll get the hint that you're kind of interested.
dropdeadlegs Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 Then you'll like my new avatar. Onto the topic of you, soulseeker...why don't you just suggest a coffee. Keep it brief so that there aren't any particular expectations or pressures, but by asking him he'll get the hint that you're kind of interested. I'm not seeing a new avatar, why is that? I'm seeing an absence of one. Yeah, soulseeker, keep anything low key if you decide to make a move.
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