Icantletgo Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 Hey ya'll. If you are not familiar w/ my story here is a synopsis (Verry long): With my bf for 3 years. Broke up in July cause he never saw me and he was so stressed w/ school and work and me so he gave me up. A month or two later wanted me back, say he wanted to work things out. Come January he wanted to break up again. I went through his phone records cause he was acting different with this breakup and found this girl and him had been talking alot. He confesses to me he had been dating her since september. While I was still in love w/ him and thinking we could work things out, he was going out with her. He even told me in october that he was through with dating and just wanted me and he couldn't wait for me to finish my graduate studies so we could move in together. Well anyways so we broke up for sure in January. End of February he calls me cause the new girl doesn't know if she wants to be w/ him. He comes to me talking to me saying he is devasted and that he is in love w/ her. I listen cause I still love him. We end up sleeping together multiple times. although he constantly texts and talks to her on the phone in front of me. SO TONIGHT: He comes over to see me. She calls him and he picks up and talks to her. I look at him and I tell him I can't do this anymore. It's killing me see him talk to her. I tell him i can't be his friend anymore cause I'm still in love w/ him. he tells me he's sorry. he didn't know i felt this way. he confesses that he still sees me to see "if he's missing something" and doesn't want to let me go cause he knows he loved me once and wants to see if he did in fact fall out of love w/ me or not. I tell him to please leave me alone. If he really loved me he would be in love w/ me. Not try to "find that something" or see if he "missed something". So he's out of my life. I hope. Please pray for me. Anything like this happen to ya'll? Why is he being so selfish?
Trialbyfire Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 Wow, what an absolute jerk. He's very selfish indeed. Glad to see you pushing him off and letting him go but you honestly didn't have to grow balls to do it.
guin_girl Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 Unfortunately, yes I have been in a similar situation. The simultaneous dating and I didn't know... and then later after the breakup over it, the trying again, the crying on the shoulder about someone else. It hurts... I know... I wish you the strength to stay strong and work your way through this. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to overcome... I wish I had found this site when I was going through it... you have a good group of people here to lean on for support.
magichands Posted March 6, 2007 Posted March 6, 2007 alot. Is not a word! Please pray for me. I don't think such desperate measures are called for. You have finally realised that you are being used. Not sure about balls, but you need some willpower. And some respect for yourself. Seems that you are getting both. Hopefully you can hold on to them for much more than a day or so.
Author Icantletgo Posted March 6, 2007 Author Posted March 6, 2007 Are you sure alot is not a word? It's funner than tons. ps. sarcasm!!!
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