blueyes77 Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 I havent posted anything in awhile been busy but if yall could help please my mm man almost got caught cause someone told his wife he was seeing someone so she pulled his phone bill and found out we had been talking alot he told her we were good friends she has bought it so far as we know but someone also told her i had a child so she questioned that but could never prove anything but us being friends but while all this is going on he decides to tell me that he didnt care what happens because he was in love with me that he wanted me to know he had feel in love with me and didnt want to lose me but that it didnt have anything to do with our daughter that he loved me i really want to know can a man really fall in love with another woman and be married too or is he messing with my head i feel like he loves me when were together thats why i cant end it because i did fall in love with him.
whichwayisup Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 Do you two have a child together????? If he does, then he's not only playing his wife for a fool, he's living a DOUBLE LIFE! He's selfish, that is how he can keep loving his wife, staying with her and say he loves you and keep you in his life as well. He's got TWO women meeting all his needs...Why on earth would he want to give either of you up? If he 'truely' loved you enough, he'd end his marriage with his wife, get a divorce and marry you. BUT, he hasn't nor is he going to do that....... His wife is gonna be watching him like a hawk now. Even if he tries to convince her nothing is going on, she WILL be checking up on him...Maybe even hiring a PI to tail him to see what he's really doing.
Jinxx Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 Do you two have a child together????? If he does, then he's not only playing his wife for a fool, he's living a DOUBLE LIFE! I think they do -- she says "our". What a mess you are in. Even though you are love with him -- and I'm no different because I'm in love with my XMM, time for you to cut the ties and move on. CS can always be sorted out but by the sounds of it, your MM isn't going to leave his marriage.
Author blueyes77 Posted March 5, 2007 Author Posted March 5, 2007 Yes we have a child together this has been the hardest thing to deal with in my life so far his has a 3 year old with his wife and we have a 4 month old Im the one who said i didnt want him to leave his wife but i also dont want to keep doing this its so hard when you love someone to say good bye i have never had someone make me feel like he does i think that adds to it
whichwayisup Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 I think they do -- she says "our". I was just making sure. Never know, it could have been a typo.
Guest Posted March 11, 2007 Posted March 11, 2007 yes it is possible. i am in a very similar situation and we have more than one child. my advice to you is to get out now. don't be afraid to raise your child alone. my mm does love me and our children and hes miserable trying to keep everything going. feels torn between two households. our oldest is eight so this has been going on for years. you can and will probably always love him. he is the father of your child, thats okay, but you don't have to be a slave to those feelings. AS LONG AS YOU LET HIM HAVE YOU AND HER HE WILL. he won't choose cause either way he looses. YOU have to choose. keep posting and i hope this helps.
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