The Labyrinth Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 Hi all, i have bored everyone with my long stories before, but i am gonna keep it short and sweet. How do one tell if the girl is interested in you? and i hope the ladies can help me out... What is the different between friends vs romantic interests, what are the signs that separates them. I am so lost I have been contemplating to just tell her that i am not sure what you think, but i think you are great, i truly enjoy our time together and i hope we will be able to hang out more as a couple. But i think its too straight foward, SO whats the magical number of dates until i have passed on to the friendship zone if i don't grab her hand and hold on to it unless she pulls away. please give me some advice so i can be more clear thanks in advace
sb129 Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 "Signs" vary so much between individuals that it is impossible to say really what they are! Why don't you just ask her out on a couple of dates, then ASK her how she feels. instead of stressing yourself out trying to interpret "signs" which you may or may not interpret correctly. I appreciate straightforward honesty myself. And if she says she just wants to be friends- chalk it up to experience and move on... you got alot of living to do yet dude!
Author The Labyrinth Posted March 4, 2007 Author Posted March 4, 2007 what i fear isn't that she will reject me because she doesn't like me, but that she liked me until the point where i poped the question on how she feels. Too early on. And scare her away.... unless what you are telling me is that if you are romantically interested in a guy you will appreciate the honesty, and that it won't scare you off if he asks. ..?? you are right, i do have alot more living to do....sigh.
Yamaha Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 The only true way to know if a women likes you is if she and you are having sex. That being said, you need to be upfront with her and let her know you think her friendship is great and you would like to move forward to the next level. If she wiggs out on you or avoids you then you are better off without her for she is very immature and not worth having as even a friend. If she sees you as a friend only then she as put you in the zone early in your relationship, probably within a few minutes. The difference between friends and lovers is the sexual attraction you have for that person. Bottom line, If she finds you attractive and likes you as a person then she will want to be with you and date you. If she likes you but is not attracted then you are a friend.
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