sweetyetbitter Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 My bf broke up with me last night... we never had any arguments or fought about anything. I fully understand his working environment, where in he has to be on duty everytime we was called on for work and his family where in he is an only child. I too was an only child... but for the couple of years spent together we never have been quarelling.... It was just that he broke up with me all of a sudden because he does not see our plans to work out well. Since we are only child we will get our houses and yet i have told him that I am very much willing to stay to their house because that was wat he really wanted ever since. But opened up lately that I am so worried about my dad if I would be moving to there place. So weeks after he decided to break up because of plans are not feasible but it a way too early to say that it is not feasible. He never really had any arguments with me about opening up with my concerns bout my dad. It was really sad that he already jumped into a conclusion. Even his parents was also sadden by the break up. To be honest to everyone he was the one who wanted to set up this plan to be get married to me in a few years time. And he also suggested that we should open an account so that we may be able to save money for the future... Even his parents was so surprised of him being so sure about me ACcording to my conversation with his mom... the reason behind this was he was not ready to do this yet.... but i dunno he might just be affected when i opened up my concern about my father. He was really a husband type of boyfriend that he always drop by here after work and bring me wat i like and he made his plans for us... He is a very responsible man. But why does he have to end it this way?.. I am a bit confused... and do you think there is a chance for reconcillation, because I told him that we can make adjustments about the plans.. Please do post your opinions. THanks
Yernasia Quorelios Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 I know it's hard and you're looking for ways to fix things. If there was something that could be fixed right now I think that your bf would have raised it and you would be discussing it. When a person breaks up they do so for their own reasons and don't always share them. IMHO, the best thing you can do is to just wait and see if he changes his mind. Try not to fix things as this generally pushes people further away. If he's going to come back, he will come back in his own time.
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