Guest Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 Me and my boyfriend of over 4.5 years have recently broke up. It was his doing although this is not the first time we have broken up...each time it was his doing and each time he eventually came back, we have been broken up this time for a little over a month.. the reason for him breaking up this time is b/c he says we both want different things in the future and that he knows i want a life of marriage and kids and that he just does not want that out of life and felt that he was only dragging me along and it wasnt fair to me. I asked him if he thought maybe i wasnt the right girl for him but he said that he didnt think that at all. The marriage issue has come up in the past where he couldnt wait to marry me, then he wasnt ready and didnt want to talk about it until he was ready but still wanted to marry me eventually, and then now its he never wants to marry. we have hung out 2 times in the past month after we broke up and things were the same as they had been when we were together...he looked at me as if he was still in love with me. I know a hang up of his is the fact that he has only been with me and would like to be with another girl physically. All his actions show he is still in love with me. He says he doesnt care if i find another guy but i dont believe that....i just find it hard to believe that it wouldnt bother him. when we are together it seems as if he is still in love with me.... people keep telling me that maybe he just needs space to figure things out...i really dont know anymore...when i ask him if he ever thinks we will be together again all he says is that he doesnt know. He is 24 going on 25 in a week and I am 22 going to be 23 in two months.
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