pricillia Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 I was not sure where to post this and I think that the most current dream I had is somehow relevent to my situation. The other night I had a dream that I was pregnant, I looked down and saw my stomach and I saw the outline of the baby. Then the baby droped lower and pretty soon I was on my way to the hospital to deliver the baby. The person (Man I was with, which was not him) drove me to the hospital but while we were walking to the car there was another car in the way and he physically moved the car so we could get by... just wondering what this could mean...
Trialbyfire Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 Okay, I'll take a crack at this. The baby and you represent responsibility and a nurturing relationship. The man was someone who cared enough about the two of you (relationship with all it's responsibilities), to ensure the safety and care of his loved ones.
Author pricillia Posted March 3, 2007 Author Posted March 3, 2007 Okay, I'll take a crack at this. The baby and you represent responsibility and a nurturing relationship. The man was someone who cared enough about the two of you (relationship with all it's responsibilities), to ensure the safety and care of his loved ones. Well that is a nice interpertaion... I looked up giving birth and it could mean new beginnings... In the deam the baby was talking to me...also a weird he went right to breast feeding... LOL not sure what to think of that:lmao:
Trialbyfire Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 Well that is a nice interpertaion... I looked up giving birth and it could mean new beginnings... In the deam the baby was talking to me...also a weird he went right to breast feeding... LOL not sure what to think of that:lmao: Ah...the baby is your inner child and knows how to survive by relying on the most healthy of all nutrients. lmao, I honestly don't have a clue about dream interpretation but it was fun to take a crack at it...
frannie Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 I was not sure where to post this and I think that the most current dream I had is somehow relevent to my situation. The other night I had a dream that I was pregnant, I looked down and saw my stomach and I saw the outline of the baby. Then the baby droped lower and pretty soon I was on my way to the hospital to deliver the baby. The person (Man I was with, which was not him) drove me to the hospital but while we were walking to the car there was another car in the way and he physically moved the car so we could get by... just wondering what this could mean... 'man i was with, which was not him' who is that..? it didn't make much sense... I really like interpreting dreams, but the way you wrote this out lacked a lot of information. Also, you need to put in feelings... how you felt about each event or the overall feeling...
Author pricillia Posted March 3, 2007 Author Posted March 3, 2007 'man i was with, which was not him' who is that..? it didn't make much sense... I really like interpreting dreams, but the way you wrote this out lacked a lot of information. Also, you need to put in feelings... how you felt about each event or the overall feeling... Ok I was in a house, apartment whatever, it felt all new to me. I was with someone of male entity, but I knew it was not him. I looked down at my stomach and I was pregnant, I was not shocked in my dream, I felt comfortable with that part of the dream. I looked down at my huge stomach and I saw the outline of the baby, part of his hand and part of his leg, then it was like the baby droped lower in my stomach and then I knew I was ready to deliver. where we left off... The man I was with took me to the hospital and was determined to get there even though there were obsticals in the way. I remember looking down to see that my water had broken and the placenta was already out of me. I delivered the baby before we arrived, it was a boy. The baby was talking to me in the dream and his wishes were.. or he said something like I want to make sure that I am in a loving home. I assured him that he would be. He then proceeded to breast feed and I remember thinking... OH... I wish MM(my current MM) could be here to share this with me. I hope that is enough detail for you Frannie...
Guest Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 As for telling the wife, has anyone thought that she might just not be able to accept it and try and harm herself. I bet that most wives whose husbands who are engaged in a serious emotional and physical affair do know deep down. That is why lots of OW on this forum notice that their mm pull away when the wife is curtailing their movements, checking up etc. Now if she wants to know if her husband is cheating she can ask him and if she really perseveres (wants to know) he will probably confess. If things have not got to that stage at home and the mm is working on the marriage then why set back that healing process by telling the wife? A chiling tale before any of you rush off to tell the wife. A male friend of mine had an affair with a mw. My friend decided that the mw was dragging her feet about telling her husband so my friend saved her the touble and told him face to face.Two days later her husband was found hanging from a tree with a note in his pocket. The relationship between the mw and my friend broke down and my friend will be haunted for the rest of his life. They also had 2 small children who will no doudt be affected in later years by this. That's all I wanted to say. We as OW/OM had a choice in whether to get involved and stay in the affair. The wife was there at the beginning, and no one sought her approval to become part of a triangle.
frannie Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 Quick response/feeling You want to believe in this future... but you don't. You're trying to convice yourself it is right, but you don't belive it..
Author pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Author Posted March 4, 2007 Quick response/feeling You want to believe in this future... but you don't. You're trying to convice yourself it is right, but you don't belive it.. what do you mean Frannie?... What future, and what do I not believe?
frannie Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 My feeling is that you are thinking of a future, and developments... in one way you believe in them... or are trying to... but part of you doesn't have so much faith. That is the baby asking for reassurance... but you feel that there is something missing... something that your MM has... (your wish that he was with you during the birth). I would say there's something you think you'r missing from yourself/life that you want in your future (the baby)
frannie Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 priscillia that's my thoughts of your dream.. obviously i don't know you, and i'm just going on your dream ideas... but it feels right to me. think about it more.
Author pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Author Posted March 4, 2007 Oh ok... I agree with you, there are many things missing from my life!
frannie Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 Everyone's too... for certain... what it is... that's another quest... dreams can help us on that... for certain! Pricillia... did you read this: I'm posting it again in case it makes any OW think... think about your situation: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t113742/
Author pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Author Posted March 4, 2007 Everyone's too... for certain... what it is... that's another quest... dreams can help us on that... for certain! Pricillia... did you read this: I'm posting it again in case it makes any OW think... think about your situation: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t113742/ I read it... I think that even though this MM will end the affair he will do it again. And some of this did hit home when the MM said that he was tired... I infact told my MM that he must be so exhausted by being pulled in two different directions. He did not reply but the look on his face spoke volumes.
Storyrider Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 Doesn't it seem likely that this dream had at least some relationship to the lactating issue you mentioned in your other thread? Especially the breast feeding part of the dream. It could just be your subsconscious reacting to what is happening with your body.
Author pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Author Posted March 4, 2007 Doesn't it seem likely that this dream had at least some relationship to the lactating issue you mentioned in your other thread? Especially the breast feeding part of the dream. It could just be your subsconscious reacting to what is happening with your body. Possibly? It could be
magichands Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 Doesn't it seem likely that this dream had at least some relationship to the lactating issue you mentioned in your other thread? Especially the breast feeding part of the dream. It could just be your subsconscious reacting to what is happening with your body. I agree. Everything is about boobies. And if it isn't, then it should be.
Author pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Author Posted March 4, 2007 I agree. Everything is about boobies. And if it isn't, then it should be. oh silly MH, You made me laugh...
Storyrider Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 I agree. Everything is about boobies. And if it isn't, then it should be. Didn't Freud say sometimes a boob is just a boob?
Author pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Author Posted March 4, 2007 Didn't Freud say sometimes a boob is just a boob? he did not know what he was talking about obviously he did not care for beautiful breasts...
Storyrider Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 he did not know what he was talking about obviously he did not care for beautiful breasts... I was just kidding. He didn't really say that. Just ignore me.
Author pricillia Posted March 4, 2007 Author Posted March 4, 2007 I was just kidding. He didn't really say that. Just ignore me. oh ok then...
magichands Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 I was just kidding. He didn't really say that. Just ignore me. I think we'd find your boobies hard to ignore.
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