gonetildecember Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 Is it true that a guy/girl can be preoccupied with other things going on in their life or other ppl, but if they wake up and calling you is the first thing they do, that means they're really into you?
Reckless Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 unless they do it while screaming and kicking - in which case you're probably their worst nightmare ....
Tony T Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 Is it true that a guy/girl can be preoccupied with other things going on in their life or other ppl, but if they wake up and calling you is the first thing they do, that means they're really into you? Not necessarily. If they called you first thing, that means their first thought on that particular day was to call you....you may have been first on a list of many calls and other things to do that day. They could feel that since they are in a relationship with you that a call first thing is obligatory. There are many ways of measuring a person's interest but a first call of the day would be just a small component of that list. How important that person makes you feel, generally, all the time in terms of thoughtfulness and consideration is the true measure. I call some people first thing in the morning to simply get them out of the way to make room for other important things I have to do. So don't make a big issue out of any one thing...again, if somebody is into you in a big way you'll know it by how they treat you all the time and how important they make you feel in a general way.
RecordProducer Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 Is it true that a guy/girl can be preoccupied with other things going on in their life or other ppl, but if they wake up and calling you is the first thing they do, that means they're really into you? If you wonder too often whether they're into you, they are not. If you feel they are then they probably really are.
Guest Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 Or they want to get you into bed so they make the effort! However it is better than not being called, although that may not show that they aren't into. It depends what has gone on before--if you have upset the other person then they may not be keen to talk to you, for a while at least. However if the relationship is going along nicely, then I tend to agree with the poster's statement. A person will make time for you even if there is real drama in his life. How many seconds does it take to sent a text message? I hate it when they say "I didn't have time to call/text". That is bull/s and shows they don't care, are complacent about you, are seeing someone else, or playing control games all of which add up to them not being into you, (although the control freak may be into you, but who wants to date a control freak).
Star Gazer Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 If they called you first thing, that means their first thought on that particular day was to call you....you may have been first on a list of many calls and other things to do that day. They could feel that since they are in a relationship with you that a call first thing is obligatory. I call some people first thing in the morning to simply get them out of the way to make room for other important things I have to do. Wow, I had never thought of this that way... but I totally see your point!
Author gonetildecember Posted March 3, 2007 Author Posted March 3, 2007 Thanks for all the responses... I just wanted to know generally.. because I was discussing it with some friends.. but in my case it's not a matter of sex on his mind (I won't be seeing him for a couple of months) or an obligation (we aren't in a relationship) but he called randomly at 5:30 this morning.. just to say hi and ask how i was... i thought it was sweet.. so i just wanted to know.
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