loverboy212 Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 This girl this rather shy, and isn't very touchy. How can i make her be more touchy? Well not more touchy but make her want to be with me or want me in general? Sincerely, Loverboy212;)
ratingsguy Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 If you want someone who's touchy, and she's not touchy... why are you making the effort?
TheAngelicArtist Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 Take the lead and show your masculine energy. Don't be afraid to make a move. Most men send off the vibe that they are not sure what to do....but a rare man who can send the vibe that he is not afraid to make a move....
Yamaha Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 If she's shy she will appreciate a guy who is confident and assertive. By letting her know you like her and want a romantic relationship with her, if she feels the same, she should open up and let you take the lead. Watch for her comfort levels and don't push to fast if she's not comfortable.
BlueEyedSarah Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 You can't make someone like you or fall in love with you. If you like her then you have to be the one to show the first move.
Trialbyfire Posted March 3, 2007 Posted March 3, 2007 Yup, you can't make someone want you unless you become the person that she is looking for. If you show her the person you really are versus playing games, she will either take the bait or decide that you're not compatible. Be yourself and the rest...nature will take it's course. If you pretend to be someone you're not, the real you will come through sooner or later and it will come as a shock to her.
CaliGuy Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 This girl this rather shy, and isn't very touchy. How can i make her be more touchy? Well not more touchy but make her want to be with me or want me in general? Sincerely, Loverboy212;) Yep, pretty much ignore her. But you do realize you can't force someone to want you. They either do or they don't. There is nothing you can really "do" to make them want you. Ever.
Trialbyfire Posted March 4, 2007 Posted March 4, 2007 While ignoring may work on the younguns, it doesn't always work on women. If a guy completely ignores me, I take it as a sign that either he's not interested or just wants to play games which isn't what I want. Seems simple to me.
happygilmore Posted March 5, 2007 Posted March 5, 2007 Hey loverboy.. I have the same problem. im 25 , she 19.. she very shy, not that touchy and i have to make all the moves which pisses me off.. i feel like im pressuring her to see me or call/txt me coz i always have to ask... 1 day she says she txt me, then never does.. Soon as she goes out and has a drink, im getting texts, fone calls the lot and she comes home with me for the last 3 wkends. So i told her tonight by fone= that i wasnt going to txt her bac and i thought ''sod the cow'' , why should i make all the moves.. She said thats not nice, but she said sorry.. So i said i feel im forcing u to call/txt and c me. she said dont be silly, your not.. She promise to txt me more. so soon as the wkend comes, im getting loads of texts and calls, and she ends up at my house... may b u should try talk to her bout it, but in a joking way so u dont freak her out.. like i done, say sumthing like = im not forcing u to= hug me, kiss me, see me etc. works a treat wit my chick.. coz i say that i get wat i ask 4.
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