I dont know how to let go.... There is 4 total. 1 i love

[jeannieapple]

I dont know how to say goodbye to the others. How do I know this one is true??

[JackJack]

I dont know how to say goodbye to the others. How do I know this one is true??

 

 

You have 4 people form your past you can't let go of? 4 guys that were b/f's, and now you have another one? Just making sure I understand.

 

If this is the case you should have probably been over, or pretty much over the others before moving on to another.

 

If you jump from one relationship to another, then your heart probably doesn't have alot of time to heal.

[BlueEyedSarah]

I agree with the above post. You should have let your heart heal before jumping into other relationships, if this is the case.

[Trialbyfire]

If this is all happening concurrently, you're not really committed to any of them. It's probably better to understand yourself before going onto something more serious. It's honestly okay to be alone and not have someone waiting in the wings while you look for what you believe is a sure thing.

[norajane]

I dont know how to say goodbye to the others. How do I know this one is true??

 

You're dating 4 people at the same time, but you only love one of them? And you're asking how you know for sure if this one that you love is 'true love'?

 

If I understand this correctly, you already know how you feel. You love this one guy. If you had feelings for the others, you'd know. There are no guarantees that things will work out, but you already know things won't work out with the other guys because you don't love them.

 

BUT - if you are dating 4 guys at once, it sounds like you may have been, um, lying to all 4 of them and cheating on them if they don't know about the other guys you're seeing. That is not a good foundation for starting a relationship. You should look inside yourself and figure out why you are so needy for attention and so desperate to hold on to all of them and why you can't let go and take a risk on the one you love.