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Thanks for translating my post Luv.:)

:) No problemo! Habla Espanol? ;)

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:) No problemo! Habla Espanol? ;)

 

Nein.:(

 

Sprechen sie Deutsch?

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Nein.:(

 

Sprechen sie Deutsch?

Nope, aber ich lieben loveshack!! :love:

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Like someone said earlier, either I'm into a girl or I'm not.

If we hang out occassionally or once in a blue moon then we're friends.

 

On the other hand, if a girl is interested in me and I am too. If her interest is much higher than mine,then i will be a bit of challenge. There's no point in letting someone chase you if you lay out all your cards on the table, correct?

So initially the chasee should maintain some mystery.

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So initially the chasee should maintain some mystery.

the "chasee" should maintain some air of mystery forever

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Nope, aber ich lieben loveshack!! :love:

 

Sagen Sie, "Ich liebe Liebschack". Oder auf Russian "ya lublu Loveshack!"

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The spelling on this thread is atrocious. It's almost as if you're all speaking a foreign language. Like Canadian, or something equally indecipherable.

 

What exactly does one get if they play hard? Or is it more about getting hard to play? I'm kind of confused.

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I don't think guys play hard to get nearly as much girls do. (I'm a girl admitting this.)

 

Some guys do have that certain mystery about them. I think that can be a turn on to a girl. It also works both ways. I think some guys really are attracted to mystery in a girl. So, girls, in turn,realize this and it can be used to their advantage to get a guy interested in her. She will withhold certain things and some guys see this as a challenge. Some pursue it, while others don't. But I have noticed that not putting all that out there (at least not right away) tends to attract men AND women.

 

So, playing hard to get(in ways) can be useful.

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Because they actually love you. I mean that kind of mystery is only going to be kept up for so long. I actually like when the mystery is gone and you really know and like the person. That can be better than the chase.

 

You are thinking like a guy, johan.:laugh: If women had their way we would stay mysterious because they like the fairytale concept. It doesn't last forever but I think you always need some mystery about yourself so people don't always read you like a book. It keeps things interesting and passionate.

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Sagen Sie, "Ich liebe Liebschack". Oder auf Russian "ya lublu Loveshack!"

Russian?? That's where I draw the line....:p.

Posted
I don't think guys play hard to get nearly as much girls do. (I'm a girl admitting this.)

 

Some guys do have that certain mystery about them. I think that can be a turn on to a girl. It also works both ways. I think some guys really are attracted to mystery in a girl. So, girls, in turn,realize this and it can be used to their advantage to get a guy interested in her. She will withhold certain things and some guys see this as a challenge. Some pursue it, while others don't. But I have noticed that not putting all that out there (at least not right away) tends to attract men AND women.

 

So, playing hard to get(in ways) can be useful.

Yes, women do play hard to get more than men.

 

Having said that, I find that men and women who play too many games are usually concealing something less than admirable.

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, I find that men and women who play too many games are usually concealing something less than admirable.

Interesting. Up their sleeve, on their conscience, inside their heart, or down their pants?

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Interesting. Up their sleeve, on their conscience, inside their heart, or down their pants?

Take your pick. It could be a combination of any or all of the above. I guess I tend to equate hardcore gamers with players.

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It also works both ways. I think some guys really are attracted to mystery in a girl.

but no so much "mystery" that when I raise her skirt I find a penis and scrotum :laugh:

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