Guest Posted March 2, 2007 Posted March 2, 2007 So I have been with my boyfriend for 6+ yrs. Every year he breaks up with me telling me something new. He needs to find himself, he can't love me the way i deserve to be loved etc....In '05 he proposed to me (after another break up) I said yes thinking that he really wanted to do this. He is very impulsive so I told him we can get engaged but we can start making preps in 2006. He was into the wedding planning, picking out colors, halls, photographers etc....I thought things were okay. Like every couple we would fight. We moved in w/each other in dec. 05. He was a very cold person when I met him. It took him 4 years to tell me that he loves me. I accepted it because I love him. I have bent over backwards for him. He started becoming more affectionate and telling me he loves me in 05 (after 4 yrs of being together) I have been patient and understanding. I just don't understand. Like any couple we have had pre wedding jitters, but the other day (when I went to work) he packed all of his stuff and left.....He was waiting for me and he told me "he is not ready for marraige and that he doesn't love himself and that he can't love me the way I deserved to be loved" His family and my family are upset at his decision because we have been engaged for 1 1/2 yrs and the wedding is 6 months away. Everyone was looking forward to our wedding. I have lost thousands of dollars because the wedding expenses have been paid for. He claims he has spoken to some of his friends who are married along with some of his non-married friends. He claims some people think he is too young to get married (he is 28 and I am 25) He also said that some people say we have broken up two many times to get married (again, he has broken up with me 5 times....this makes 6) what do you guys think? Pre wedding jitters or what?
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